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Come in her mouth?

Unlike what some people might think, I'm a guy not comfortable with orgasming in my girlfriend's mouth, or anywhere but 'inside' her. She's been trying to make me orgasm inside her mouth, and when I tell her to let go she acts really worried, she doesn't understand why I feel it's wrong to do so.

To me, it's a matter of respect on the one hand, since I feel sperm isn't exactly the nicest substance on the planet, and I wouldn't want it in my mouth either, and on the other hand, I'm the kind of guy who loves kissing and what not, and I don't really feel comfortable doing that to the mouth that just had a load of sperm in it, no matter if it's my own.

So, what do you think? How should I tell her that? Should I tell her that? Should I perhaps change my mind? How should I change my mind? Am I blowing this way out of proportion?

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I think you should talk about it with her. I believe if you talk with her about this you may feel more conferable with it. I think you are kind of blowing this out of proportion just a bit. Maybe you could try coming on her stomach or chest before you do her mouth that may make you feel a bit more secure with it. If its on the stomach make sure none slides down into her vagina.

I think my current GF would never do anything like that for me, so I consider you a very lucky person.

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Well, honestly I don't know if I feel that's a better idea, especially since it'd cause such a mess, and it'd get over me as well, unless you wipe everything clean, but where's the atmosphere then?

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I think the atmosphere is where you and her are both enjoying each other. That is what sex is supposed to be. You both having fun and enjoying one another on a different level of emotion.

So if it would make her happy it could make you happy as well. There is really no harm in trying it as long as you are safe about it and are educated on the risks.

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you can sensually clean up together as well. take a shower together, or playfully wipe each other clean.

you have masturbated right? that means you have touched your own cum. you eat with your hands, so how is that any different. also, pre-cum has more sperm than actual ejaculation itself.

also, sex doesn't have to be all squeekie clean, whats the fun in that? if cleanliness is your concern, might as well have bubble-sex(as in both of you being in two separate bubbles and unable to touch each other.

there is nothing dirty about sperm.

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Wellse I've masturbated, and I get your point, but I do think there's a difference. But back to the actual matter at hand, what about her mouth? What do people think of that?

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What do you mean? how clean her mouth is?

It probably wont really hurt you or her at all. The only way you can get hurt is if she has a cold sore then you can get genital warts because it holds the same kind of bacteria. So she could give it to you then she can get it right back so she gave it to her self. That would be the only thing I would worry about.

If your worried of her hurting her self or you hurting her, just tell her you want to take it slow. I bet if you tell her that your unconformable with it but want to try it and tell her you want to take it slow I bet she'll understand and you'll really enjoy it.

Other than that having sperm there doesn't really affect much. The digestion track will kill them easily. Plus the mouth has saliva that will break it down. The stomach acid is so strong it can digest a metal spoon.

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Xero, that is incredibly besides the point. My question has not changed, and it's simply about me being uncomfortable with it, because I would feel it disrespectful on the one hand, and just not quite nice for me or her either, simply because it's that same mouth I'm so fond of kissing.

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That makes it even more enjoyable to cum in.

I wish i had a chick who wanted me to cum in her mouth. I've had a few in the past.

She sounds hot.

Cum isn't dirty.

Don't you lick her pussy...you're getting her juices in your mouth. Every girl I've ever eaten has had no problem kissing afterwords.

Why shouldn't she be ok with get your fluids in her mouth too.

You must be very young.

The older you get, the more open minded you get.

I love to lick a chicks asshole. To me that's a major turn-on, if she's attractive and clean. When I was young, I wouldn't have done that.

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Well, you're right about most of what you're saying, I suppose. And in fact, yes, I'm not that old.

Now, I feel there's a difference between her 'juices' and mine, being that hers are basically water and some level of salt, while mine are pretty damn gooey and messy. Also, hers can leave traces on the sheets, but they don't always do so, while mine are bound to cause a great mess. This to ilustrate how I still feel there's a difference. Also, in the beginning, I did notice a certain reluctance to kiss me right after I had gone down on her.

I suppose it may be something I'll simply accept when I'm older. Would you say it's a good idea to give it a try, or just wait till I feel more comfortable about it?

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Give it a try and remember nothing's perfect the first time around.

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she enjoys it, so why are you getting in the way of it? :P

also, if you cum in her mouth, there would be less of a mess

to clean up; assuming that she swallows. there would be nothing

on the bed sheets or anything afterwards.

also, women tend to release a small amount of urine when they

orgasm or ejaculate. still being the same concept? :P

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Well, I suppose you're right about it not leaving a mess. I'll give it a good thought, I reckon.

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She wants to...your lucky. Do it and enjoy it.

If a woman said I want to suck your dick and i want you to cum in my mouth, I wouldn't even have to think about it. I'd be doing it.

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slittylicker wrote:

She wants to...your lucky. Do it and enjoy it.

If a woman said I want to suck your dick and i want you to cum in my mouth, I wouldn't even have to think about it. I'd be doing it.

That is so true.

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