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how do i get my girlfriend to have sex with me while wearing a strap-on?

hey guys, i have a fantasy where i want to have a strap-on dildo inserted into me. i've brought it up before with past girlfriends, but none have believed me when i explained that i am not gay, but only curious about anal play. another thing is, i am only 20 years old, and younger women don't seem to be open sexually to fetish/fantasy. any help on how to bring this up with my current girlfriend or if anyone has the same fantasy, please give me some feedback.

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This forum has had a number of postings about "pegging" - the term for what you're talking about. There are some books about this and a series of videos with the title "Bend over Boyfriend." (google it) You might obtain one of these and watch it together to give her the idea and to learn safe ways of doing this.

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First, Svutana congratulate you profuse for be in touch with what you want at such young age. Svutlana recommend that rather than ask girlfriend for peg right off bats that be little bit like ask womens for prepare fugu fish that maybe kill you, ask for anal play in increase large doses. Start with insert finger and work your way up for anal plug, dildo that no be attach for girlfriend and strap-on that be attach.

This be what Svutlana call frog-inside-pot approach for sex.If place frog immediate in boil water, it jump right out with screams. But if gradual turn up heat, frog no notice one little bit and no try for escape. Of course, you no turn up heat so much as for kill frog...simple acclimatize frog for higher temperatures.

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im 22 and so is my wife, and we have talked about it and we even looked at thee store and we finaly tried it, its normal for guys to be into it and straight cuz it stimulates the male g spot, you just have to find the right person that would like to try it, my wife is dominant anyway and were gonna start trying domme stuff soon.

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ya know what. Ya just gotta ask. My wife and I went to the adult store a few days ago. I just asked her if she wanted to try some thing new. She said sure why not, what do you have in mind. I picked up a strap on off the rack and said, "how bout this" It was FUCKIN awesome! She was very open minded about it. I was very nervous about it for a while. Drove me freakin nuts. but once we were in the store. it was even more nerve racking. Shaking like a leaf, but soo glad I did it.

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What is it called when you like your girlfriend to finger your asshole while blowing you?

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I would call it anal stimulation.

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Honestly as a woman, I'm not comfortable with the idea of sticking my finger in my husband. Plus I have long nails so I'm not sure how safe that would be.

BUT, an anal plug or a prostate massager (link below) I'm comfortable with inserting. We've looked at a strap-on, just haven't taken the plunge yet.

This is kind of what my husband has. I do not work for this site and haven't bought anything from them, just the first one I found that looks like what we have.

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Wow , this Question from three years ago . Thats why i posted another and what men really like . Most hetro men love the tickle , most hetro men enjoy that tickle from their Wife / partner / girlfriend . I think its only fair that most hetro men want to explore his partners Never regons . More the reason that he must want the same back .

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