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How do you find another girl to make a threesome?

I want to have a threesome really really badly with my boyfriend, but i have no idea where to find another girl! I don't want to have a threesome with any of my friends, because i don't want to change our relationships. It's not that i don't find any of them sexually attractive, i just don't think it's a good idea. But having sex with a girl is one of my biggest fantasies, and I think it would also be very hot to see my boyfriend having sex with another girl. That would be awesome. Is having a threesome just a pipe dream, or can it actually work out?

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There are some links off this site to find some. That Adult Friend Finder i think it supposed to be okay. I"m sure there are personal ads out there as well. I have never gone that route. I have met people via other sources and found they were bi or swingers and experimented that way. One was actually my friends financee! Oddly, it didn't change our relationship that much but we do have rules in place and being that I am no longer with my boyfriend, i may be more willing to do other things further with them. If you are in NYC, there may be swinger clubs where you and your boyfriend could go feel out some people, literally and figuratively! I don't know of any off hand. But I know a couple in Vegas. Unfortunately I didn't get a chance to go to the Red Rooster with my guy. They only accept other couples. But Green Door takes singles.

Hope that helps some.

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Thanks, I'll ask if my bf is into it. I'll let you know how it goes!

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Sam,

You know who your friends are, so if it doesn't feel right then venture forward. Go beyond the friend factor. You don't want to freak them out either. So make new friends! I know that may seem like a hard thing to do, but it can be done. Fact is if you make one "swinger" friend, they will have friends too.

Couples are the easiest to find, so you might want to go that route. You and your boyfriend then get the best of both worlds. Eventually you will find a female that has what you are looking for!

Good luck!

OverKnight

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My wife and I just had our first threesome after about 7 years of trying, we ended up with a friend of ours who recently divorced her husband. The sex was great but it was some what awkward being around each other after it happened, it took some time for the comfort level to get back to normal. We are going to have her again, very soon, we are hoping that the awkwardness goes away a little each time, so i guess we are still experimenting with it so maybe you should try it that way too. Good luck!

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Okay...first...I don't recommend going with any of your friends. Sure it will be fun, but not all friendships can get past it. Some end up not surviving...so unless you are willing to loose your friend for a good time, skip it.

Going with AFF (adultfriendfinder) or other personals can be a good way to go because you can make new friends who already know what you are after. Someone says, "make new friends", well no matter how easy or hard that is to do...it isn't always easy to bring up the topic, "hey we would love to have a threesome with you!". That said it is still hard to find a single woman who wants to be a part of a threesome. You will just need to know that.

Another option is to do the couples thing and a lot of people who want a threesome with another girl end up going this way because it is easier to find a bi woman who is part of a couple and willing to play. I don't know how you feel about the man being involved, but it is something to consider.

Most (not all) swinger clubs, groups, and parties will let couples in and single females in. This is because there is a high demand for single females for fmf (and other combination) threesomes. You can try to find clubs in your area to meet swingers and possibly a female. It could be that you make friends with someone who knows someone else. Oh, and remember that most swinger clubs, parties, and people are very laid back and just because you go doesn't mean you have to swing! You can go make friends and get to know people who enjoy sex.

Good Luck...but do keep in mind that you are looking for a unicorn...the beautiful and elusive creature that most swingers want.

Dani

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Dani: What a great post! You have great insight. When I read your posts, I always think "I wish I had thought of that."

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I hope u live in brooklyn ny because I am just the girl who is also looking for a girl for a threesome

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Matilda Sporchuk wrote:

I hope u live in brooklyn ny because I am just the girl who is also looking for a girl for a threesome
I am looking for a girl to have a threesome with my boyfriend are you interested

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im also lookn :( bt cant find no one

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I have a big 14inch cock if anyone can handle that.

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