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My boyfriend wants to lick my ass.....

...Yeah this is kinda embarrasing but my boyfriend I've been dating for like 6 months now wants he wants to lick my ass and go down on me but I am VERY self consious about my body! And I always say no when he asks if I want to try something new and I feel really bad about it because I don't want to be stuck in the same old stuff and I don't want him to feel rejected but at the same time. I don't want him to even see me without clothes on. I don't know what to do I try to talk to him but I have a bit of androphobia, but he listens top I guess I'm the problem in the relationship. I have no idea at all what to do someone help please??!?!:eek:

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Sweetie, you need to love your body first. Don't think you're not attractive, You are to this guy who obviously wants you and respects your wishes.

And its true, don't get into a rut, but trust is an issue when it comes to sex.

The whole licking you in a place that you're not used to is normal. But maybe you should give it a try, and personal experience talking, if you think it'll gross him out somehow, have a long and cleansing shower before sex of any kind. And maybe after a few tries, you may even like it.

Maybe there's a fantasy you want to do with him, ask him to do it with you and maybe you'll find a comprimise on his own fantasy/fetish.

All the best.


These are tapping techniques that release trapped emotional energy such as poor body image. Look for a video on YouTube.

Your anus can give you a lot of pleasure. Just wash first.

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