My boyfriend's foot fetish is ruining our relationship...
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now and for the last 2 and a half years our sex life has been basically non-existent. We have a great relationship otherwise and I am completely in love with him.
The problem is that he has a foot fetish and that is the only thing that turns him on. I don't have a problem with his fetish, in fact I used to enjoy it and got turned on by it in the first 2 years of our relationship. The problem is that he could go his whole life without having sex as long as he can masturbate to pictures of feet or have me stand on him while he masturbates. Apparently this was OK with his ex-wife who only required he rested his head on her pelvis and that would turn her on for her to masturbate.
I cannot go my whole life without passionate sex. I need the kissing, hugging, foreplay and all the other fun things that go along with good sex.
How do I turn him on to where he wants to do these things with me? Or is our relationship over?