Sex after 75
I am a 75 yr old female and into my seond marriage, however, I am seeing my first husband who is 78 yrs old, and am very much in love with him and desire sex with him. Try as he may he has a diffucult time being able to perform. His last sex, so he says, was 8 yrs ago. He get an erection and will experience an ejaculation manually, but if he is to enter me, he just goes flat!! He says that with time it will come back. He satisfys me manually, but thats not what I want. As an aside, my current husband is 87 and has no interst in sex for over 15 yrs. How do I handle this?? I go to see my former every month during April to October, as I live in upstate NY and he lives on LI. Driving in the winter is out of the question. I know I can't be the only senior woman who desires sex at this age my gynocologist tells me, enjoy. Please advise.