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What does sex feel like for a woman?

Okay, here's my thing I'm ordinary guy asking a question, and can't go in this case on what I know or feel so I kind of have to ask women this question, and risk getting the he's a pervert look, or your asking a personal question, or just simply the awe him is special look, well trust me when I tell you I am no or less any of those things then most people in the world, but anyway anyway back to the question. What does sex feel like for women? I know there are no easy answers to this question. And quys please please help out if you can, don't be afraid of trying explain a feeling, or a shutter. just as the question. What does sex feel like for women? gets answered. Thank for taking the time to read this.

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For me sex is like pressure deep in my core. With each thrust it builds and builds and builds until all my nerves are on fire, it's like his manhood is filling up a space I never knew was empty. And when I orgasm I lose control of my body for several seconds and want him to go harder and faster so that the pressure builds even more inside me, until it finally releases. Normally during all of this I want to be as close to him at physically possible, and I love stroking his muscles with the tips of my fingers or running my fingers through his hair. But there is nothing I love more then to see him getting off and it makes my heart pound like crazy.

But not anal. That shit hurts.

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This is really tough to answer.

What sex feels like for me depends a lot on my mood. But more or less, what comes closest for me is a "reward" feeling - like when you are really thirsty and drink something, or finally take the first bite when you're hungry.

What does sex feel like for you?

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Well I can't really say because I am a virgin, But if you can call masturbation sex then I guess it feels okay. I mean the only place I feel anything is at or near the tip around the head. I am suposing this is how it feels for a lot guys, but the question I had wasn't aimed at the men, but instead the women, not to be smarting off or anything but hey.

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Hey, I didn't mean to change the subject on you - I just thought it polite to ask back (and also to show you how hard it is to describe something like this where you have no comparison). I did my best to answer your question though, and maybe some of the other women around here will post as well so you hear different views.

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Hi harvey

Persephone is right it really is a very tough question to answer.

But I shall try.

It is like persephone said it is a satisfying feeling. like being filled. Or like a really nice massage... this is just me but I've tried anal sex and generally the sensations are similar, if you are desperate to find out try anal play.... but others may disagree with me that the two are similar...

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Hi! Tendra

1st off allow me to say that I knew this would be a difficult question to answer so it wouldn't have been too big a deal if no one answer it.

2nd off, why am I assuming that sex should feel like a really good massage to a woman?

3rd as for anal play to that as long as I am a guy and if and when I ever have sex, that partner is in fact a woman then OK, if not then Mr. stay the hell away from my butt please.

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Also in conjunction to the question stated above, that, who has a better orgasm. Women scream and moan but guys keep a lid on it, meaning , if a women and a guy were at the same level , both equally aroused and they cum, would a woman's orgasm be considered a higher peak than the guys? does this question make any sense??

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For me sex is like pressure deep in my core. With each thrust it builds and builds and builds until all my nerves are on fire, it's like his manhood is filling up a space I never knew was empty. And when I orgasm I lose control of my body for several seconds and want him to go harder and faster so that the pressure builds even more inside me, until it finally releases. Normally during all of this I want to be as close to him at physically possible, and I love stroking his muscles with the tips of my fingers or running my fingers through his hair. But there is nothing I love more then to see him getting off and it makes my heart pound like crazy.

But not anal. That shit hurts.

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For me, the sex act is a final culmination of what has been building up - either all day in my mind or the couple of minutes when I find out the gentleman's intent to "play". The first few kisses puts my entire body on alert - with many different areas on my body wanting to be touched or kissed. When the kisses go from my lips to the side of my face and travel to the area just below my ears, I start to feel a stirring between my legs as well as my nipples. Both areas start to ache with a need to be touched. I know that for me that is when I begin to start trying to get as close as possible to my partner wanting his lips on my nipples and to ever so gently begin to gyrate my hips to get his leg between my thighs but still leaving complete access to my breast. At the same time as we are kissing, I love to grab his cock and stroke the length and cup his balls - this causes me to get a bit wet as well.

Now I am a little bit into having him bite my nipples - playfully at first, but each time that he sucks and kisses them, I ask that he bite just a little harder. This will causes me to buck a bit underneath of him, gyrate a little harder and start an aching between my thighs that keeps building.

Between stroking his cock and suck on his earlobs and running my hands through his hair and down his back to feel the clenching muscles in his buttocks, the aching in my vagina is getting to the point where I just need to feel his hard cock inside of me. It is not a bad ache but more of a longing which turns into a fire that needs to be fulfilled and that is all that I can think of......getting that need taken care of. When he is so hard that he can't stand it either, he will take his cock and place it just between my lips below and stroke it up and down. This causes me to nearly whimper because I want it inside of my so badly that I feel like he is almost being mean to me but not thrusting it in. ( For him though, the first few seconds before entering me (he says) the tip is so sensitive that it feels so good just going up and down to get it lubricated with my wetness.)

When the tip of his cock penetrates me and then slides slowly in, it is like I am being filled to the core with something that was originally a part o is a f me. It fits so perfectly. I feel the need to push up against his cock as I feel the muscles inside of me stretch to allow him to fill me up. This is the most satisfying feeling in the world - it makes me moan because of all the pleasure it brings, but it is only for a moment - because as he slides it back out of me, it causes the fire to begin again and it rages even more. The nerve endings on every part of my body are heightened. When he kisses me or any part of my body at the same time as he is making love to me, it causes my vagina to slightly contract around his cock. This pressure inside of me keeps building and building - my brain has really just shut down to everything around me except for him and his body. I begin to just enjoy the heat from him, his smell, his touch and especially the delicious feel of his cock inside of me until I am ready to cum. Then the feeling of this tremendous pressure causes everything to contract so tight around him and it just has this pulsating feel that grabs his cock and starts to involuntarily massage him as well while he is inside of me. As he begins sliding up and down again, he will usually cause me to cum again which gives him great pleasure as well :) The vagina and my clit are super sensitive at this time and he can send me into convulsions just by touching me ever so lightly anywhere down there or even by gently biting my nipples. I love the feeling afterwards when we are done but he is still inside of me. Having my lie on me and feeling his heart beat go from racing to calm is such a peaceful time for me.

I will still be all tingly down there for a while afterwards and while enjoy thinking about how I can still "feel" where he was inside of me for several hours and I will daydream about it for several days afterwards.

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MsCandi wrote:

For me, the sex act is a final culmination of what has been building up - either all day in my mind or the couple of minutes when I find out the gentleman's intent to "play". The first few kisses puts my entire body on alert - with many different areas on my body wanting to be touched or kissed. When the kisses go from my lips to the side of my face and travel to the area just below my ears, I start to feel a stirring between my legs as well as my nipples. Both areas start to ache with a need to be touched. I know that for me that is when I begin to start trying to get as close as possible to my partner wanting his lips on my nipples and to ever so gently begin to gyrate my hips to get his leg between my thighs but still leaving complete access to my breast. At the same time as we are kissing, I love to grab his cock and stroke the length and cup his balls - this causes me to get a bit wet as well.

Now I am a little bit into having him bite my nipples - playfully at first, but each time that he sucks and kisses them, I ask that he bite just a little harder. This will causes me to buck a bit underneath of him, gyrate a little harder and start an aching between my thighs that keeps building.

Between stroking his cock and suck on his earlobs and running my hands through his hair and down his back to feel the clenching muscles in his buttocks, the aching in my vagina is getting to the point where I just need to feel his hard cock inside of me. It is not a bad ache but more of a longing which turns into a fire that needs to be fulfilled and that is all that I can think of......getting that need taken care of. When he is so hard that he can't stand it either, he will take his cock and place it just between my lips below and stroke it up and down. This causes me to nearly whimper because I want it inside of my so badly that I feel like he is almost being mean to me but not thrusting it in. ( For him though, the first few seconds before entering me (he says) the tip is so sensitive that it feels so good just going up and down to get it lubricated with my wetness.)

When the tip of his cock penetrates me and then slides slowly in, it is like I am being filled to the core with something that was originally a part o is a f me. It fits so perfectly. I feel the need to push up against his cock as I feel the muscles inside of me stretch to allow him to fill me up. This is the most satisfying feeling in the world - it makes me moan because of all the pleasure it brings, but it is only for a moment - because as he slides it back out of me, it causes the fire to begin again and it rages even more. The nerve endings on every part of my body are heightened. When he kisses me or any part of my body at the same time as he is making love to me, it causes my vagina to slightly contract around his cock. This pressure inside of me keeps building and building - my brain has really just shut down to everything around me except for him and his body. I begin to just enjoy the heat from him, his smell, his touch and especially the delicious feel of his cock inside of me until I am ready to cum. Then the feeling of this tremendous pressure causes everything to contract so tight around him and it just has this pulsating feel that grabs his cock and starts to involuntarily massage him as well while he is inside of me. As he begins sliding up and down again, he will usually cause me to cum again which gives him great pleasure as well :) The vagina and my clit are super sensitive at this time and he can send me into convulsions just by touching me ever so lightly anywhere down there or even by gently biting my nipples. I love the feeling afterwards when we are done but he is still inside of me. Having my lie on me and feeling his heart beat go from racing to calm is such a peaceful time for me.

I will still be all tingly down there for a while afterwards and while enjoy thinking about how I can still "feel" where he was inside of me for several hours and I will daydream about it for several days afterwards.

MsCandi that was some kind of discription of how sex for you, as a virgin with a siezuer dis-order male I wish I could experience it with a woman.

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Harvey: Welcome to the forums. I hope you don't think that having a seizure disorder will prevent you from experiencing the closeness and pleasure that sex has to offer. There is someone for everyone. Don't assume that just because you have any given attribute, that there isn't someone for you. The great lie of hollywood and the fashion magazines has been that love is only for perfect people. most of us are less than perfect, at least by Madison avenue standards. If you don't give up hope, there is someone who will accept you just because she wants to be with you. The key is to make your life awesome, using whatever gifts you have. And, I believe that everyone has a gift to share. Then, someone will want to share it with you.

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Beagle: First let me say I'm glad to be here. Second let me say, you're hoping my having a seizure disorder prevent me from sexual experience, but it's not quite so much the seizure disorder as much as the ability to drive because of it. Because I have this disorder both the law and I prevent me from being able to drive. I know, it sounds really really stupid right?

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Harvey wrote:

Beagle: First let me say I'm glad to be here. Second let me say, you're hoping my having a seizure disorder prevent me from sexual experience, but it's not quite so much the seizure disorder as much as the ability to drive because of it. Because I have this disorder both the law and I prevent me from being able to drive. I know, it sounds really really stupid right?
Beagle: Um allow me to correct myself, I said you're hoping my seizure disorder prevent me. hehe well I ment to you're hoping my seizure disorder does not prevent me. Sorry for that felt like it needed to be done

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Reread the sentence. That is now what it said. It says I hope you don't think that.

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Beagle: Weather you think it or I think it itn't really the point as I see, driving and generally getting around free is my problem like it understand it or not. To tell the truth I'm not quite sure I do all the time

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And please don't assume I don't want women or sex, I do it's more along the lines of deserving a woman and sex itself. As much as I know that these siezures are not my fault, and am very glad they are not, I also know there are days in wich I actully hate my life, note exactly enough to kill myself for, beleive me I have abolutely no desire at any to what so ever to take such a cowardous wy out. I know that if I didn't have this problem and could drive, could get around freely and with a other people having to drive me, I would have more money to begin with not even to try to talk about dating I might even be married by now, NOW THAT'S A SCARY THAUGHT!!!! hahahahaha, But seriously I hate having siezures and a siezure disorder I hate having to take medicene for it. Wish and pray to all mighty God that I didn't have to worry about any of these things if this makes any scense at all.

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I went to college with a guy that had been in an accident. When I saw him, my first thought was "I wish I looked like that. I bet the girls go for him." We later got to talking at breaks and what not and every time he met someone he almost compulsively mentioned how his arm his deformed from the wreck. I hadn't even noticed it until he mentioned it. Someone else said to me "It's like his whole identify revolves around that."

Obviously, I don't know anything about your life. I don't know if you're able-bodied other than the seizures or what your appearance is. I do know many people who are happily married who are in treatment for seizures. Obviously, a seizure disorder can range from one seizure every few years to multiple grand mal seizures in a day. The severity will definitely affect the level of impact the seizures have on your life. (I have a close family member who has seizures, so I'm not a stranger to the difficulties.)

Perhaps more information on the full extent of your limitations would help us better understand your situation.

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Well let me first I don't have epiepsy just a simple disorder so the extent of my disorder is just siezueres ever once in a while especially if I don't take my medicene. But as I said before in the other statement both law and I prevent me from being able to drive. it kind of sucks considing that the fact I live a not very big town, where places to go and hang out places to simpley talk to women or even guys , to friends are spread out and not all with in wilking distance. Just so we all know I do live with one of my relivtitves, a brother and his family but they see me as a pain or a burden So asking them to help me is like asking some guy to allow a little kid to hit him in places he normally allow his best friend or his girl friend to hit him without there being a damn good reason for it. Personally I don't think it'll ever happen at least not with out some kind of cost wether it's monetary or emotional or some other kind of cost. I case we don't realize battles and wars have costs, and I am not quit sure I am goon like the cost of this one. Lets see I have siezure disorder wich prevents me from being to able to drive wich puts me on medication wich keeps me from being a to drink wich by the way I can't stand the taste of beer or alcohal so I am okay with that one but not being able to drive and treated like a burden planly stick like something crawled out of a sewer.

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My thought as I read this is that you have given up on life. I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself.

I can't guarantee a lot of things but I'm sure of this: If your attitude stays the same, your circumstances are going to stay the same. I'm by no means claiming to have an easy fix. However,every solution has to start somewhere. If you make your life just a little better today, and just a little bit better tomorrow, and just a little bit better the day after, that adds up to a big change over a long time.

Yes, any change you make in your life will require a cost. Usually, financial AND otherwise. The cost may be just leaving your comfort zone.

I have one question for you. What have you got to lose?

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I think you are putting way to much value in being able to drive, yeah it make it a bit harder but just because you can't drive doesn't mean you won't be able to find someone. Have you thought about moving to a place where people walk everywhere instead of driving. And I think you are defeating yourself by thinking this way, if you do what beagle suggested, your life will be much better

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