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why does my penis not get erect for sex somtimes,even though i'm really horny?

i have a question, why does sometimes im about to have sex with my girlfriend, who i am truly in love with and who i am extremely attracted to, does my penis not get erect, but i am extremely horny?

and if it does get erect, it doesnt stay that way?

is there any way i can stop that from happening, and why does it happen, do i need pills, i mean im only 26 yrs old, and for the most part im usually fully erect but times i really want it, it doesnt stay that way, and i try other stuff to get it erect but it doesnt work, like she would touch and do oral or even just cuddle with me and it wont stay up, but the next morning, im always fully erect like i want it to be, could you help me

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For this issue, I would suggest you see your doctor, but it could be that you are putting too much presure on yourself.

Don't try to force anything, just relax and take thing's as they come. (pardon my pun)

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When I met my wife I could not get hard the first few times, even though I had no problems with the few other girls I was with, or with masturbation, and in fact was highly sexually driven. However, when, after alot of worry, I asked my wife (to be at the time) to stay with me one night and not to want sex, she agreed. It was such a relief of pressure that I think half an hour after we lay down in each other's arms I was completely ready and we had an amazing night! As the previous member said to you, you probably have yourself under too much pressure.

When I didn't feel anything other than sexual attraction I'd had no problem with girls, but I was really smitten with my wife when I met her and I think it just felt so imnportant to me that we got on well together, I just couldn't get hard.

Maybe I'm just an oddball, but hey, give my trick a little try and see what happens. But don't expect to have sex, really ask her to spend a night cuddling and talking and really want that too yourself. I think you will feel better afterwards. :)

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Lift heavy weights and eat lots of fresh meat because this will increase your testosterone which leads to hard erections.

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Many things causes this, Worried about something, stressed ,tired, drinking, same routine (change it up) the other 10 babes you did before her.....

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When I was 26, the only time something like this happened to me is when I was trying to have sex too soon after my last orgasm. From about 21 years old on, your recovery time between orgasms lengthens some with each passing year. Believe it or not, you will eventually reach a point when you no longer have spontaneous erections and need a little help getting it up. Anyway, the point I was trying to make is that when you are in your late teens you could probably have a successful orgasm every 2 hours or less. But that length of time eventually gets longer to where you have to give yourself a longer time out. Alcohol is another factor. The longer you drink the longer it will take for you to orgasm. In fact this is one of the recommendations I give guys who are having problems cuming too soon. Having a few drinks before engaging in sex may make you feel hornier but it will take you longer to get off. One other thing comes to mind. From my teens through most of my 20s I had a problem with coming too soon. I found that if I masturbated an hour or so before having sex I could last longer and better please my partner. Using that method over time eventually got me to a place where I was having problems getting off during sex. Needless to say I stopped using that technique. Hopefully some of these suggestions will help you out. If not you, maybe others.

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im 46 years old.male and can not get it up?i need to come real bad ill master bate for 3 to 5 hours at a time and nothing i havent been with a women 4 about 10 years. also im not gay...just very horney.iv tryed lub a viberator pictures.it is getting very nerve racking.some one please help me.my nick name is handy man......and i dont see my doctor for another month i need hheellpp now right now.and the hole problum is i dont no how to check my email yet.i just got my computer 1 week ago still learning.can some one leave me a meassage on this page please?

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Hello Robert,

I think you´ll have to wait for your doctor appointment for this one. It is possible a medication is doing this, or a physical condition. Nothing we could resolve through the internet. Talk about this with your doctor!

I hope things work out for you. Let us know how it goes!

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I am 26 year old I am married.we r planning baby but now my pennis does not erect for sex but before every thing was fine can someone leave a msg in this page.

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Hi Harry,

The best thing for you is to go see a doctor. There can be many reasons for this, and your physician will help you get to the bottom of this.

Good luck!

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