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Watched your video on Previous Lovers-I'm not her first. How can I forgive her?
Was the guy who asked this a virgin? I being one (if this guy was) know where he is coming from.
I got mentally messed up in Jr.High when the showed the video of a "over weight" woman giving birth with all the "stuff" that comes out of her and attached to the new born.
I would like my first time to be with a Virgin Female so that if I am bad or if she just lies there, we will either both enjoy it or both be disappointed. Also I would love to be their first so she has nothing to compare to (I know, sounds selfish) and don't have to think about the previous guy before me being inside her and having it feel like I am having sex with that guy also.
To me if a girl/woman have had sex before (not giving birth) she is unclean, used.
Once they give Birth... They are damaged goods and I can't get that image of a nasty dirty baby coming out of her.
I understand this sounds messed up. I also have "friends" that tell me to Settle for less. My expectations are too high, they say just because I won't compromise on this but will compromise if she is a light drinker or smoker ( both which I hate also).
Granted there ARE a FEW females that have had sex with many guys and I am willing to compromise for them BUT they see me as the (dreaded) "friend" from which you never recover.
I can Forgive them all they want. It's just, I can't get past being second or third or ++++ or the birth thing. I am even going as far as wanting a vasectomy so I don't have to put her though that (again sound selfish).
Being a virgin makes it harder to approach females, because in the back of your head, you get this voice saying "she's unclean, or worse damaged" therefore you judge her before ever knowing. Also only ever kissing one girl in my life doesn't help because you have no experience on how to and you laughed the first time because you were so nervous.
Friends tell me to "go get a hooker and get it over with already". Sure do that and my unit falls off the first time or catch something even using the dreaded condom (which I don't want to use for my first time) that don't give you the whole experience.
So how do you over come 20+ years of people telling you "sex is wrong" and at the same time "just do it" with any ol person? And How do you find someone willing to give you that chance when your finally willing to compromise?
I also understand, I may not have articulated myself very well in explanation or question.
Watched your video on Previous Lovers-I'm not her first. How can I forgive her?
Was the guy who asked this a virgin? I being one (if this guy was) know where he is coming from.
I got mentally messed up in Jr.High when the showed the video of a "over weight" woman giving birth with all the "stuff" that comes out of her and attached to the new born.
I would like my first time to be with a Virgin Female so that if I am bad or if she just lies there, we will either both enjoy it or both be disappointed. Also I would love to be their first so she has nothing to compare to (I know, sounds selfish) and don't have to think about the previous guy before me being inside her and having it feel like I am having sex with that guy also.
To me if a girl/woman have had sex before (not giving birth) she is unclean, used.
Once they give Birth... They are damaged goods and I can't get that image of a nasty dirty baby coming out of her.
I understand this sounds messed up. I also have "friends" that tell me to Settle for less. My expectations are too high, they say just because I won't compromise on this but will compromise if she is a light drinker or smoker ( both which I hate also).
Granted there ARE a FEW females that have had sex with many guys and I am willing to compromise for them BUT they see me as the (dreaded) "friend" from which you never recover.
I can Forgive them all they want. It's just, I can't get past being second or third or ++++ or the birth thing. I am even going as far as wanting a vasectomy so I don't have to put her though that (again sound selfish).
Being a virgin makes it harder to approach females, because in the back of your head, you get this voice saying "she's unclean, or worse damaged" therefore you judge her before ever knowing. Also only ever kissing one girl in my life doesn't help because you have no experience on how to and you laughed the first time because you were so nervous.
Friends tell me to "go get a hooker and get it over with already". Sure do that and my unit falls off the first time or catch something even using the dreaded condom (which I don't want to use for my first time) that don't give you the whole experience.
So how do you over come 20+ years of people telling you "sex is wrong" and at the same time "just do it" with any ol person? And How do you find someone willing to give you that chance when your finally willing to compromise?
I also understand, I may not have articulated myself very well in explanation or question.
