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my fiance's family hates me. it's not healthy for our relationship. he get's all kinds of advice from them, and listens to their opinions about me. every time he comes home form visiting them, he treats me like i am a beneath him.
last weekend our house was broken into. he told his family about it, and immiedately it became my fault. i assoiciate with trash, druggies, and other worthless characters. if i didn't befriend these people, he would have never had his pc stolen.
everything that goes wrong in the relationship is always some how my fault. my inlaws constant badgering of my character seems to be a direct link.
we found out we are pregnant, and he was extremely happy. he told me we were going to fianlly get married. once his family got involved, he changed his tune again. now we have to wait, because he doesn't want to spend the money on a wedding. he also doesn't wat to pay for my credit issues.
it's been 3 wedding dates called off in over 5 years. actual wedding dates!!!
his family will not allow me into their home. they don't even come by to visit him here.
a few months ago, he and i broke up for a while. he moved out because of many reason. i'll list a few:
i have too much debt, i don't make enough money, i'm a bad parent, he didn't think i could mother his children, he couldn't marry a girl that flips burgers the rest of her life, i have no ambition in life, i have little to show for my life, i wasted my life, he can't be with a girl that his parents can't get a long with... there is more but you get the point.
while we were broke up, he refused not to (yes, not to) stop paying the rent and the electric here at the apt. he became pissed at me, because i refused not call him for a ride to work when i needed it. he flipped his lid when i chaged the locks to the doors.
eventually, he and reconciled. i forgave him for leaving, and he moved back home. while he was at his parents (yes, that's where he moved too) he bought this exspensive sports car. his dad helped him get it. when he moved home, he told me that his dad would take the car away if he caught me driving it. so i refuse to drive it lol! (he trys to get me to though... i admit i have had too, but only because he was too lazy to drive to the store or my appointments for medicaid.) the car payment for this trophy car is more than our rent payment!!!
he now is in the act of trying to sell it! (yes, he does have a brain... babies cost money)
his sister posted on her myspace blogg about me me being pregnant. she stated that her brother's pydcho girlfriend is pregnant, if you know who she is you will share my a pain this suxs...
i can't live like this anymore. i'm tired of trying to be peacful, and watching the pain these people are causing my fiance. he shouldn't have to be oppressed by their points of view. i rarely say one foul word about his family, because it causes him pain. i hate hurting him, but how am i suppose to be happy with him?
i can't have this kind of shit going on infront of our children. it's so stupid!
why do they have to make our lives so diffuicult? someone please share with me some helpfull answeres and insights!!!
thanks
~fawkse~
last weekend our house was broken into. he told his family about it, and immiedately it became my fault. i assoiciate with trash, druggies, and other worthless characters. if i didn't befriend these people, he would have never had his pc stolen.
everything that goes wrong in the relationship is always some how my fault. my inlaws constant badgering of my character seems to be a direct link.
we found out we are pregnant, and he was extremely happy. he told me we were going to fianlly get married. once his family got involved, he changed his tune again. now we have to wait, because he doesn't want to spend the money on a wedding. he also doesn't wat to pay for my credit issues.
it's been 3 wedding dates called off in over 5 years. actual wedding dates!!!
his family will not allow me into their home. they don't even come by to visit him here.
a few months ago, he and i broke up for a while. he moved out because of many reason. i'll list a few:
i have too much debt, i don't make enough money, i'm a bad parent, he didn't think i could mother his children, he couldn't marry a girl that flips burgers the rest of her life, i have no ambition in life, i have little to show for my life, i wasted my life, he can't be with a girl that his parents can't get a long with... there is more but you get the point.
while we were broke up, he refused not to (yes, not to) stop paying the rent and the electric here at the apt. he became pissed at me, because i refused not call him for a ride to work when i needed it. he flipped his lid when i chaged the locks to the doors.
eventually, he and reconciled. i forgave him for leaving, and he moved back home. while he was at his parents (yes, that's where he moved too) he bought this exspensive sports car. his dad helped him get it. when he moved home, he told me that his dad would take the car away if he caught me driving it. so i refuse to drive it lol! (he trys to get me to though... i admit i have had too, but only because he was too lazy to drive to the store or my appointments for medicaid.) the car payment for this trophy car is more than our rent payment!!!
he now is in the act of trying to sell it! (yes, he does have a brain... babies cost money)
his sister posted on her myspace blogg about me me being pregnant. she stated that her brother's pydcho girlfriend is pregnant, if you know who she is you will share my a pain this suxs...
i can't live like this anymore. i'm tired of trying to be peacful, and watching the pain these people are causing my fiance. he shouldn't have to be oppressed by their points of view. i rarely say one foul word about his family, because it causes him pain. i hate hurting him, but how am i suppose to be happy with him?
i can't have this kind of shit going on infront of our children. it's so stupid!
why do they have to make our lives so diffuicult? someone please share with me some helpfull answeres and insights!!!
thanks
~fawkse~
