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I'm the husband and I love my wife. In the coming weeks, we will be celebrating our 25th anniversary. Throughout the years, sex has varied from great to "let's just get it over with." As expected, life goes in cycles so there are times when we are really hot for each other and times when things cool a bit. Right now, we are in a cool cycle for a number of reasons. Her mother passed away a year ago and she is still grieving over the loss. She's also starting to go through menopause. She goes 3-4 months and then has a very big period. She got off birth control a few years ago and now I have to pull out before I ejaculate so we don't risk pregnancy at 50+ years old. Both of us have very demanding jobs that causes a lot of stress in our lives. When she comes home from work, she is exhausted and just want to rest. Sex is not even on her mind.
What I am seeking here is advice on how to make sex fun again. It's always exactly the same thing. We hug and kiss, undress each other, and run our hands all over each other's body. Then I go down on her and lick her clit until she climaxes. By that point, I am extremely excited myself and she wants me 'inside' her. I enter her in missionary position and it usually does not take long before I cum. Since I have to pull out and ejaculate in my hand, it takes away a lot of the emotional feeling associated with letting go deep insider her while passionately kissing. All of this happens in the early morning because she is too tired to do it at night. Any advice out there?
Jim
What I am seeking here is advice on how to make sex fun again. It's always exactly the same thing. We hug and kiss, undress each other, and run our hands all over each other's body. Then I go down on her and lick her clit until she climaxes. By that point, I am extremely excited myself and she wants me 'inside' her. I enter her in missionary position and it usually does not take long before I cum. Since I have to pull out and ejaculate in my hand, it takes away a lot of the emotional feeling associated with letting go deep insider her while passionately kissing. All of this happens in the early morning because she is too tired to do it at night. Any advice out there?
Jim
