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I am asking advice and need it. I am love with a wonderfull man. I am treated so well. We get along and have so much in common. I love him and he loves me. We talk about our furture together from time to time. He is the one trouble in the relationshop. He has know his ex wife since the 10th grade. They are both the age of 46. She is manic depressive and suffers from other mental disorders and is on medicine and does not work. OK here it goes, she stills in his home. They had been divorced for 8 yrs now. No children at all. He comes and goes when he wants. He has left town and been gone with me and for business and she has been fine alone. I know that there has been someone to take care of her, but her ex(my boyfriend) seems to feel that until she is on the right medicine that he needs to take care of her. His house if paid for 100% and he makes a good living for himself.
He has always been honest with me and I spend a great deal of time with him at my home and he spend several nite with me over nite. I love this man and he was EXTREMLY HONEST WITH ME THE NITE I MET HIM. 16 months i have been with him and he tells me how things are going with him. I have asked to meet her and he told me that becaue of her illness it is best that i do not. I would not mind helping him with her or even being a friend if needed. (get this part) The other day she was looking at some of the bills that were coming in. She got the cell phone bill and got my number. She called me,but when i answered she just said that she had the wrong number. And that was it. Later on that day my boyfriend called me and told me that he knew she called my number. I was shocked and yet happy that he told me he knew that it was her that called me. I was shocked to know that the call was from her.I felt that if he had something to hide that he would not have told me. I was understand and supportive. The thing is. This man meet all the needs i want with a man, but he has told me that he wants to still love me, date me, and be with me. He told me for now this is his life untill she is straightned. out. I am not sure if life will send us in the direction of living together or anything further. I love him and i know he loves me. But do I wait it out and give him support? Or do I walk away from a man that I respect and love with my whole heart? He has told me that he wants our relationship to continue and that time will tell what the furture will bring for us.
Any advice is welcomed
Thanks
I am asking advice and need it. I am love with a wonderfull man. I am treated so well. We get along and have so much in common. I love him and he loves me. We talk about our furture together from time to time. He is the one trouble in the relationshop. He has know his ex wife since the 10th grade. They are both the age of 46. She is manic depressive and suffers from other mental disorders and is on medicine and does not work. OK here it goes, she stills in his home. They had been divorced for 8 yrs now. No children at all. He comes and goes when he wants. He has left town and been gone with me and for business and she has been fine alone. I know that there has been someone to take care of her, but her ex(my boyfriend) seems to feel that until she is on the right medicine that he needs to take care of her. His house if paid for 100% and he makes a good living for himself.
He has always been honest with me and I spend a great deal of time with him at my home and he spend several nite with me over nite. I love this man and he was EXTREMLY HONEST WITH ME THE NITE I MET HIM. 16 months i have been with him and he tells me how things are going with him. I have asked to meet her and he told me that becaue of her illness it is best that i do not. I would not mind helping him with her or even being a friend if needed. (get this part) The other day she was looking at some of the bills that were coming in. She got the cell phone bill and got my number. She called me,but when i answered she just said that she had the wrong number. And that was it. Later on that day my boyfriend called me and told me that he knew she called my number. I was shocked and yet happy that he told me he knew that it was her that called me. I was shocked to know that the call was from her.I felt that if he had something to hide that he would not have told me. I was understand and supportive. The thing is. This man meet all the needs i want with a man, but he has told me that he wants to still love me, date me, and be with me. He told me for now this is his life untill she is straightned. out. I am not sure if life will send us in the direction of living together or anything further. I love him and i know he loves me. But do I wait it out and give him support? Or do I walk away from a man that I respect and love with my whole heart? He has told me that he wants our relationship to continue and that time will tell what the furture will bring for us.
Any advice is welcomed
Thanks
