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a friend and i decided it was time to move up the bar, and now we are dating. We get along REALLY well (yes we are young, and i think im allowed to be enthusiastic but not to the Romeo and Juliet point. ) I'll give a couple examples.
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She devised this slang for the word "fuck", and instead of saying "Fuck yeah, schools out!" She said "Fooche yeah, schools out!" Since I still have 4 days of exams, i responded taking her slang, "Fooche no, I have exams." All she did was laugh, and we kissed. Little foreplay after that, but nothing sexual.
Now to the problem:
Since we are still young, our undeveloped minds tend to develop personal fantasies. Which I dont normally have a problem with because I'm the same way, and my "fantasies" are pretty disturbing. Like insane asylum disturbing for Edgar Allen Poe. And She isnt nearly half as corrupted. Now maybe she started it when i did, but i "developed" a split personality thing. after a good month or so of experimenting, i dropped it and moved on. But she just stuck with it. i know she really doesnt have a split personality, its pretty obvious. Before i didnt rly have a problem with it, but after a while, my mind began to think of the seemingly endless possibilities and excuses she could have(although she probably isnt that smart to think of them or use them as well as i can). And now it bothers me. Now the personality or girl I love is named Rain, aside from the name i met her by, her actual name "Shauna". It does get a bit confusing so ill try to keep it as easily understood as I can. Started out with her being Shauna. Then later she developed the split-personality thing and Rain was born. She had one of those moments tht I have daily, where its a moment of trance. Nothing but the truth, or what your conscience is miswording from your mind. I knew when she first introduced me to everything that it was all just the fantasy thing, and in the back of my mind, she is and always will still be Shauna to me. I thought she'd move on like i did but she didnt... been like this for at least a year(started it when we were friends.) I know the damage it can cause to a young mind, just have to view what it did to me.. And even though she may want to understand my mind a bit better than anyone else, I dont want her to be in this harmful situation. I do already plan to bring this matter up to her by the end of the week the latest, but I know I'll need some tips to help me convince her to let it go and revert back to the Shauna I know and love.
Anything you have in mind will be GREATLY appreciated, and u will have my promise tht if u ever have a problem of any kind, i'll come to your thread and give u my best opinion. But I just need some help on turning her back.....
EX: 1
She devised this slang for the word "fuck", and instead of saying "Fuck yeah, schools out!" She said "Fooche yeah, schools out!" Since I still have 4 days of exams, i responded taking her slang, "Fooche no, I have exams." All she did was laugh, and we kissed. Little foreplay after that, but nothing sexual.
Now to the problem:
Since we are still young, our undeveloped minds tend to develop personal fantasies. Which I dont normally have a problem with because I'm the same way, and my "fantasies" are pretty disturbing. Like insane asylum disturbing for Edgar Allen Poe. And She isnt nearly half as corrupted. Now maybe she started it when i did, but i "developed" a split personality thing. after a good month or so of experimenting, i dropped it and moved on. But she just stuck with it. i know she really doesnt have a split personality, its pretty obvious. Before i didnt rly have a problem with it, but after a while, my mind began to think of the seemingly endless possibilities and excuses she could have(although she probably isnt that smart to think of them or use them as well as i can). And now it bothers me. Now the personality or girl I love is named Rain, aside from the name i met her by, her actual name "Shauna". It does get a bit confusing so ill try to keep it as easily understood as I can. Started out with her being Shauna. Then later she developed the split-personality thing and Rain was born. She had one of those moments tht I have daily, where its a moment of trance. Nothing but the truth, or what your conscience is miswording from your mind. I knew when she first introduced me to everything that it was all just the fantasy thing, and in the back of my mind, she is and always will still be Shauna to me. I thought she'd move on like i did but she didnt... been like this for at least a year(started it when we were friends.) I know the damage it can cause to a young mind, just have to view what it did to me.. And even though she may want to understand my mind a bit better than anyone else, I dont want her to be in this harmful situation. I do already plan to bring this matter up to her by the end of the week the latest, but I know I'll need some tips to help me convince her to let it go and revert back to the Shauna I know and love.
Anything you have in mind will be GREATLY appreciated, and u will have my promise tht if u ever have a problem of any kind, i'll come to your thread and give u my best opinion. But I just need some help on turning her back.....
