To tell you the truth, most women would like to have more fun but are afriad what may happens afterwards. She probaly thinks in her mind you might not be as upset with a girl then with a guy. Females do care about their mates and are afriad to losse them most of the time. You never know you may have said something and she might have took it in the wrong way. Trust me as a married man, i said things and my wife takes it the wrong way, it just happens. B ut the bottem line is it sound like you two are into that for as far as you all has went. So my advice is to you is. Find her a few ladies that does do the couple thing and let her go out with them. You know a Girls Night Out> Then she can ask any questions to them about the lifestyle that she may be afriad or shy to ask you about. As for her being raised up in a chuch home. So was me and my wife. Tell you the truth it did held us back for a couple of years on sex things, but now we are open to many things. So this really shouldn't be the issue. She just probaly a little held back on how far you all should go. Just give her time and explain exactly how you feel. I hope it all works out for you two and you can enjoy a fun fill sex lifes with other people.