Ask Dan & Jennifer

What are you confused about. Do what you feel is correct for you. Don't let everyone else do your thinking for you.

One of the best indicators of sexual orientation isn't what you do, it's what you fantasize about while you're doing it. The classic example is the straight man who has sex with other men while incarcerated. Or the closeted gay man who marries but fantasizes about men while having sex with his wife.

However, I"m going to agree with the previous poster and ask if it really matters what label you put onto it. Only you know who attracts you. That can be a valuable source of information. So your answer depends on what turns you on about transsexuals? Are you thinking of them as men or women or is it just knowing they're transsexuals that is a turn on?

You are gay if you want to be. End discussion.
I'm not saying you can choose your orientation; I am saying that you choose how to define yourself. A married homosexual is still a homosexual even if he's never loved a man but loves his wife, and considers himself homosexual. It's your choice.

I would say your not gay because your atracted to someone who looks sounds and acts like a women. so your atracted to the femininity of that person. and most transexual women feel that they are women so in reality your atracted to women. Now only u can decide if your gay or not but i would say your at most your bie but only u can decide that. well i hope this helps. Hope you have a wonderful day =).