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Theres this girl called Chantal in my seminar classes here at my uni/college. I cant make out whether we're just friends or something more, there is a lot of conflicting signals.
I have firlted with her on and off since the beginning of term with some positive response, you know a smile and a wink there. So you would think the step would be to start a conversion but at first it didn't go well:( From time to time she would call out ' hey' or 'hi' and I would get nervous, make some excuse and leave:mad:
Meanwhile I happened to get to know one of her friend, Steph so I mentioned I liked the look of Chantal. So the next week Steph suggested I should go to the campus bar as she going meet up with Chantal and others that day in the bar.Introductions were made and we all sat down and chatted. At one point most of them left to go smoke apart from Chantal. Just me and her, yikes but luckily she sriked up the conversation but my nerves got the better of me and speech slurred:(....which made more nervous.
As I felt that encounter didnt go too well I decided to give up on her :( tho I have been friendly since....this all happened before the xmas break. when we get back from the break and I saw her again all my urges for her re surfaced:eek: So I decided to try again with the aim to talk to her to get to know her. Now I am getting to know her I'm starting to really like her personality too. How do I know if I've left it too late? Have I fallen into the trap of friendship ?
I have firlted with her on and off since the beginning of term with some positive response, you know a smile and a wink there. So you would think the step would be to start a conversion but at first it didn't go well:( From time to time she would call out ' hey' or 'hi' and I would get nervous, make some excuse and leave:mad:
Meanwhile I happened to get to know one of her friend, Steph so I mentioned I liked the look of Chantal. So the next week Steph suggested I should go to the campus bar as she going meet up with Chantal and others that day in the bar.Introductions were made and we all sat down and chatted. At one point most of them left to go smoke apart from Chantal. Just me and her, yikes but luckily she sriked up the conversation but my nerves got the better of me and speech slurred:(....which made more nervous.
As I felt that encounter didnt go too well I decided to give up on her :( tho I have been friendly since....this all happened before the xmas break. when we get back from the break and I saw her again all my urges for her re surfaced:eek: So I decided to try again with the aim to talk to her to get to know her. Now I am getting to know her I'm starting to really like her personality too. How do I know if I've left it too late? Have I fallen into the trap of friendship ?
