Ask Dan & Jennifer

Originally posted by: Dan And Jennifer
Almost everyone has a sexual fetish or fantasy of some kind, but many people don’t like to admit it. Society has put sort of a damper on being open and honest about what turns us on sexually, however, most of it is healthy and even natural. Most fetishes and fantasies aside though, some of [...]

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Being submissive is me and my true being.I don't consider that a fetish.My real fetish/s is having my bottom spanked,hard but never to the point of cuts or injury,though I would like to see some marks stay with me for days.The other is giving oral espically to men and have to swallow.We have a small group so we all feel safe about disease.All the men have F**ked my bum while being bound,all the ladies have have performed oral on me as I have done on them.My favorite fetish is when everyone needs to release I gladly swallow their jucies,including the ladies who can ejaculate[espically my mistress].Nobody gets hurt and we love our times together.To some or most I must seem like a slut,but I am loving my life.

Originally posted by: Sub In Tenn
Being submissive is me and my true being... Nobody gets hurt and we love our times together.To some or most I must seem like a slut, but I am loving my life.

You go, that's awesome.

We're not big fans of double standards and name calling, i.e. all this "she's a whore", "she's a slut" B.S. That's narrow minded, judgmental, crap, baggage from darker times we're all just slowly waking up from. Equally valid (though equally stupid) would be terms like man-slut and man-whore for what that's worth. LOL

All of us are always learning and growing, but sitting around calling other people names because they may not subscribe to your chosen version of "morality", a.k.a. preferences or religious based preferences is not particularly mature or enlightened.

Spanking, errr speaking of censorship, equality, and double standards (yes, that was a real freudian slip so I left it), if you haven't yet had a chance to see the Live Show (weekdays @ 1PM Pacific) - we did a segment recently entitled "Should Women be Allowed by Law to Show Their Breasts in Public?"
It's a very complex issue - if you want to discuss it please do so 'http://forum.askdanandjennifer.com/topic/poll-should-women-be-allowed-by-law-to-show-their-breasts-in-public'.

Dan

Originally posted by: Dan And Jennifer
We're not big fans of double standards and name calling, i.e. all this "she's a whore", "she's a slut" B.S. That's narrow minded, judgmental, crap, baggage from darker times we're all just slowly waking up from. Equally valid (though equally stupid) would be terms like man-slut and man-whore for what that's worth. LOL
Dan

Yes, but at the same time man-whore has a sort of comical spin on things that calling a woman whore just doesn't have... or is it just me?

But really, yeah.. why the double standard? Guys are the only ones allowed to have sex? We women get harassed for enjoying sexuality when men get praised for it (speaking generally about "polite society")

To all the sluts and man-whores out there... three cheers. :D