Ok, I am in a deep loving relationship, and near the beginning I asked about sexual pleasures, (what she likes, and what I like.) It turns out we both share a liking for bdsm, and bondage.
Well my question is; we have “normal” sex on the side, but we both tend to lean closer to the bdsm side of things. In fact I am building a house, and my GF asked me to build a hidden dungeon. I have not herd a lot about living bdsm, and if my house is going to be a dungeon... well I consider that living it. Can you help me get a better idea what I am getting in to?
I guess I want to know about what it is like living on your own, in a bdsm environment.
The Falken
P.S. My family has no idea what we are in to, and I would like to keep it that way, (kind’a hard when you are walking around in public with a caller.) I am comfortable with all of this, but my family would... well... disown me to say the least. Is there a way I can get them to understand all of this? I tried to get my “mummy” to watch a movie, (I think it was "The Secretary") just to see what she thought of all this, and her comments went something like this... “What the #ell is wrong with them!?! That is #ucking sick! People who love each other don’t do that!”