Ask Dan & Jennifer

Question before I begin: How old are you?

It is not easy answering that question because I have no idea just how old you are but if you are a minor then why don't you ask your parents because that would be a good start. :)

ok first of all how old are you? second frenching is tounge kissing it's not like an ordinary kiss it's like those ones in the romance movies. watch a novela an tv or something there is bound to be a french kiss in at least one part of it.


From (kinda) everyones friend,
13 year old in NC,
who hopes to once again see
the girl he loves at least once more.

P.S. If you like her alot spend as much time together as possible before breaking up with her. :D (Just a suggestion)

Originally posted by: 13 year old in NC
ok first of all how old are you? second frenching is tounge kissing it's not like an ordinary kiss it's like those ones in the romance movies. watch a novela an tv or something there is bound to be a french kiss in at least one part of it.


From (kinda) everyones friend,
13 year old in NC,
who hopes to once again see
the girl he loves at least once more.

P.S. If you like her alot spend as much time together as possible before breaking up with her. :D (Just a suggestion)

What's that supposed to mean? Take advantage of a girl as much as you can before you ditch her? I wish you luck with that 13 in NY. Maybe you'll realize what a bad idea that is before you turn 14.

Frenching takes two. You'll learn together, but no one wants to see little ones sucking off each other's faces in a movie theater. Make sure you want to make out for the right reasons, not just so you can say you did.

Originally posted by: Sam in New York
What's that supposed to mean? Take advantage of a girl as much as you can before you ditch her? I wish you luck with that 13 in NY. Maybe you'll realize what a bad idea that is before you turn 14.

Frenching takes two. You'll learn together, but no one wants to see little ones sucking off each other's faces in a movie theater. Make sure you want to make out for the right reasons, not just so you can say you did.

Look man thats not what I meant, what I meant was to spend every day as if your last together before it's NECCESSAYRY to break up. I mean take your mother for example, treat her good, respect her because you won't have forever to spend with eachother.
And also I'm not in NY, I'm in NC (North Carolina), And also I agree with you, you can't just make out because you want to, you've gotta really,really like her! Not just for the purpose of saying you did it.

P.S. I guess it's too late though huh? :D

Now, this is just my impression from what you posted. I could be completely off. I feel like you two are jumping too soon into the physical aspect of a relationship before getting to know each other well enough. Perhaps I am too traditional, but I do not believe that the movie theater is the best place for making out, especially for the first time. How do you want to remember your first kiss? I remember my first kiss, and there is nothing that I regret or am embarrassed about.

Like Kettlecorn, my first kiss (even though it kind of sucked) was special. I loved the boy who kissed me and it was meaningful and romantic--on the sofa in my family room, alone together for hours just stroking and snuggling and touching, and then finally he kissed me. Not in a movie theater with someone I didn't know very well.

And because it was the right person, it didn't matter that we both sucked at it. He had only had one girlfriend before me and she had french kissed him for his first kiss, so he thought that's how it was supposed to go, and that's NOT what I was expecting for my first kiss, lol. Plus we just weren't very good at it. This is kind of embarassing (I was pretty darn old when I got my first kiss) but we're actually still together and we actually still aren't that amazing at french kissing. But it's totally okay because we're figuring it out together.

So like Kettlecorn, I'm a little more traditional, and I'd suggest that you take it easy and don't do anything impulsive. That being said, if you really really like this girl and you think she's the right person to make out with for the first time, go for it. :) Just make sure it's not something you'll regret later but something you'll look back on with happy memories. :)

Best wishes,
SamIAm

like most ppl that have commented i believe that you should only do it if u really really like the girl (or love her). and i aswell remember my first "true kiss" (kisses from parents and relatives dont count) in fact my first kiss was only like 5 months ago and yeah we sucked at it. but hey it was fun ;) (no im not very young im 16 but was 15 when i recieved that kiss)