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I have a serious problem with a girl at the moment.
I have liked her for a year now, I went to school with her for years but I never ever spoke to her until then. How I come to met her was properly was over Myspace and we started talking and we got along very well. Unforunately during school we never spoke because we was both extremely shy people but I remember walking into class the next day after talking to her on Myspace and she smiled at me when I walked in, not that may mean anything.
Shortly afterwards I found out one of my friends known her for a while and invited my around to a party with them. I turned up with one of my friends and I dident speak to her alot, just abit. We still seemed to get on well, but I was very shy myself. I was in town one day buying one of my friends a birthday present. My friend was selfish and she dident want the present so I ended up desiding to give it to the girl I liked and I told her she desrived it more for being such a nice person. She said she loves the album, and a song on it makes her all emtional, at some point she wanted me to play it to her on the guitar. I don't think I can do that now. (READ BELOW)
We started to speak alot more in person and I was still my same old self. One night at another one of my friends partys, she ended up getting really drunk and I dident want to take advantage of her because I am a respectful person. So I layed her on the floor and made her very comfortable. She confessed to loving me and told me I was such a lovely person. She stood up went away somewhere for a few seconds, come back, layed on top of me and fell asleep. I know she was drunk, but is it still possible she was telling the truth?
A few weeks later, I wanted to start making things serious, we just both started college and we was getting along very well. She use to approach me and ask me to take her to the cafeitina with her because she was too shy, little things like that just made me feel so good about myself.
But shortly after that! THE WORST THING HAPPENED!!! She started going out with my best friend! And they had never ever spoken before! My friend basicly said to her on MSN "Will you go out with me" And they been going out ever since!? (THATS WHY I CAN'T PLAY HER IT NOW, LOL)
Its been 6 or 7 months since they been going out with each other. And they havent done and thing. The only times they see each other is at college or partys. And they never spend time alone with each other. They very rarely talk and are often scared and shy to touch each other.
On the other hand. Me and her are either getting better or worse I don't know. I am totally not who I use to be around her anymore. My confidence around her is amazing now, we always play fight and have pretend arguments when her boyfriends not around, and we talk all the time now. The only worrys I have are I am drawing myself deeper into a friends zone doing this while shes with her boyfriend, and shes often gives me alot of signs she might like me, but shes gives me a few that she doesn't. Most of the time I have to start convostations with her, she doesn't start meny with me. Shes stopped asking me to do little things like, take her to the cafeiteria anymore, and I miss doing that. Me and her can never speak in front of her boyfriend now because he gets jealous. And also sometimes if we have these play arguments I say "Fine and not talking to you anymore" as a joke obviously she sometimes goes "But why!? Your my "FRIEND" And that word just kills me.
When we have our play fights, I often bring up things like "You said you loved me that night! And you obviously don't" As a joke again and she goes "Yeah, but I ment I loved you as a friend!" I donno what is going on.
About a month or 2 ago now. I was at another one of my friends partys with her, but instead, me and her was both drunk. And we nearly got off with each other at the party. But I remembered her boyfriend I respect him, so I stood up and left her to lay on the bed and fall asleep. The next day she said she had a weird dream about having sex with me! And she said she remember nothing about the night before. She said she remembers what I was wearing and what I looked like, and she said I looked excately the same in the dream she had, she also said we had sex in our friends bed? I know its a dream, but WTF!? Is this good? Or bad?!
I am really confused as to were I stand at the moment. I know she has a boyfriend, but that does not mean she can't still like me, right? Or is she using this for attention because her boyfriend is giving her none?
Thank you very much for reading this far, and any help you can give me to reslove this :)!
Thank you!
Sorry for this long thread btw.
I have a serious problem with a girl at the moment.
I have liked her for a year now, I went to school with her for years but I never ever spoke to her until then. How I come to met her was properly was over Myspace and we started talking and we got along very well. Unforunately during school we never spoke because we was both extremely shy people but I remember walking into class the next day after talking to her on Myspace and she smiled at me when I walked in, not that may mean anything.
Shortly afterwards I found out one of my friends known her for a while and invited my around to a party with them. I turned up with one of my friends and I dident speak to her alot, just abit. We still seemed to get on well, but I was very shy myself. I was in town one day buying one of my friends a birthday present. My friend was selfish and she dident want the present so I ended up desiding to give it to the girl I liked and I told her she desrived it more for being such a nice person. She said she loves the album, and a song on it makes her all emtional, at some point she wanted me to play it to her on the guitar. I don't think I can do that now. (READ BELOW)
We started to speak alot more in person and I was still my same old self. One night at another one of my friends partys, she ended up getting really drunk and I dident want to take advantage of her because I am a respectful person. So I layed her on the floor and made her very comfortable. She confessed to loving me and told me I was such a lovely person. She stood up went away somewhere for a few seconds, come back, layed on top of me and fell asleep. I know she was drunk, but is it still possible she was telling the truth?
A few weeks later, I wanted to start making things serious, we just both started college and we was getting along very well. She use to approach me and ask me to take her to the cafeitina with her because she was too shy, little things like that just made me feel so good about myself.
But shortly after that! THE WORST THING HAPPENED!!! She started going out with my best friend! And they had never ever spoken before! My friend basicly said to her on MSN "Will you go out with me" And they been going out ever since!? (THATS WHY I CAN'T PLAY HER IT NOW, LOL)
Its been 6 or 7 months since they been going out with each other. And they havent done and thing. The only times they see each other is at college or partys. And they never spend time alone with each other. They very rarely talk and are often scared and shy to touch each other.
On the other hand. Me and her are either getting better or worse I don't know. I am totally not who I use to be around her anymore. My confidence around her is amazing now, we always play fight and have pretend arguments when her boyfriends not around, and we talk all the time now. The only worrys I have are I am drawing myself deeper into a friends zone doing this while shes with her boyfriend, and shes often gives me alot of signs she might like me, but shes gives me a few that she doesn't. Most of the time I have to start convostations with her, she doesn't start meny with me. Shes stopped asking me to do little things like, take her to the cafeiteria anymore, and I miss doing that. Me and her can never speak in front of her boyfriend now because he gets jealous. And also sometimes if we have these play arguments I say "Fine and not talking to you anymore" as a joke obviously she sometimes goes "But why!? Your my "FRIEND" And that word just kills me.
When we have our play fights, I often bring up things like "You said you loved me that night! And you obviously don't" As a joke again and she goes "Yeah, but I ment I loved you as a friend!" I donno what is going on.
About a month or 2 ago now. I was at another one of my friends partys with her, but instead, me and her was both drunk. And we nearly got off with each other at the party. But I remembered her boyfriend I respect him, so I stood up and left her to lay on the bed and fall asleep. The next day she said she had a weird dream about having sex with me! And she said she remember nothing about the night before. She said she remembers what I was wearing and what I looked like, and she said I looked excately the same in the dream she had, she also said we had sex in our friends bed? I know its a dream, but WTF!? Is this good? Or bad?!
I am really confused as to were I stand at the moment. I know she has a boyfriend, but that does not mean she can't still like me, right? Or is she using this for attention because her boyfriend is giving her none?
Thank you very much for reading this far, and any help you can give me to reslove this :)!
Thank you!
