can i last longer?

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 3 years ago

hey...1st of all im gunna be honest and say that im only 15(male)...but im very experienced whether it be in sex or life in general...

2nd....see the thing is that i have found myself to be finishing anywhere from 5-15 minutes....on a good day maybe even 20-25.....but its not exactly long enough...
i was just wondering if there were any exercises or techniques that i could use that would help me last just a little bit longer..(if at all possible...a lot longer)

it seems that no matter the duration i always feel satisfied afterwards.....but its not myself that im concerned about..its my partner..
i asked her what would make sex more pleasurable for her...her answer was..that she would absolutely love it if maybe i could just last a little bit longer (or if possible.....a lot longer).....

i want nothing more than to just be able to give her that extra minute or two (or ten...lol) that she needs....i just want to be able to give her more, or should i say "longer lasting", pleasure....

any suggestions would be much appreciated..

Replies(5)

billy_g

Re: can i last longer?

3 years ago

hmm..well i'm not really sure on any sources to send you but you could try researching different breathing techniques. they work fairly well. you can also (with time and practice) learn to control your erection and your orgasm. i'm sure some people on hear can be much more helpful than this but..in the mean time you could research those. good luck mate

another thought for you is something that my girlfriend and I discovered because of a similar problem...if you extend foreplay, you can start her pleasure quite a while before you start to get any yourself so you could eventually work out the timing so u both finish at roughly the same time.

jess_in_c..

Re: can i last longer?

3 years ago

Originally posted by: jrj746
hey...1st of all im gunna be honest and say that im only 15(male)...but im very experienced whether it be in sex or life in general...

2nd....see the thing is that i have found myself to be finishing anywhere from 5-15 minutes....on a good day maybe even 20-25.....but its not exactly long enough...
i was just wondering if there were any exercises or techniques that i could use that would help me last just a little bit longer..(if at all possible...a lot longer)

it seems that no matter the duration i always feel satisfied afterwards.....but its not myself that im concerned about..its my partner..
i asked her what would make sex more pleasureable for her...her answer was..that she would absolutely love it if maybe i could just last a little bit longer (or if possible.....a lot longer).....

i want nothing more than to just be able to give her that extra minute or two (or ten...lol) that she needs....i just want to be able to give her more, or should i say "longer lasting", pleasure....

any suggestions would be much appreciated..

All I can say is as you start off....simply take your time and caress her and talk to her. Move your hand around her body teasingly and hold her. Start off everything slow and work your way up. That part could kill at least a half hour. Try new positions, give her what she wants a few minutes and vice-versa. Figure her out and you might get a special surprise in return! ;) Hopefully this could last longer, you just have to know how to work a women's body.

jrj746

Re: can i last longer?

3 years ago

ummm...well thanks a lot Jess in Can....i really appreciate the fact that u tried to help but i think that u tried to answer the wrong question..i dont know..maybe u interpreted my wording a little differently..but anyway thanks for trying.....its still does kinda help :)

jess_in_c..

Re: can i last longer?

3 years ago

Originally posted by: jrj746
ummm...well thanks a lot Jess in Can....i really appreciate the fact that u tried to help but i think that u tried to answer the wrong question..i dont know..maybe u interpreted my wording a little differently..but anyway thanks for trying.....its still does kinda help :)

what are you trying to make last longer then :(

jrj746

Re: can i last longer?

3 years ago

well....it looks and sounds like u tried to make suggestions about extending the total experience....i know in some places i might have been a little bit subtle but i was looking more for an answer to what would make the actual sex part last longer....ya know....kinda like prolonged ejacualation.....for my partners pleasure...i want the actual "sex" part to last a little longer...but again..thanks anyway cuz what u said does kinda help..:)