My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and are in a very healthy relationship. We have sex regularly, and it is rarely planned. In the last two months, we have been very into anal sex. I enjoy it very much, and so does he. However, I sometimes notice fecal matter residues on his privates afterwards. I always clean him up after sex, anal or not, just by pleasure and care. I'm wondering if secretely he is grossed out by this. My personal hygiene is very high. I have heard of something called enema, but since we do not plan sex, I would feel awkward to stop in the heat of the moment to go for a rectum cleansing -s'cuse my language. So my question is: do you think this will gross him out to the point of not wanting anal sex anymore? Do you think he is grossed out by me? Help!:confused: