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The chances of it being intact would probably be a no. They hymen can be broken by sports, tampons, and some other things.

If you had sex and you did bleed, then it is probably broken with out a doubt. I think what you need to do is relax before having sex. If you are too tense then you are not doing to be able to handle his penis. Because then you will be tense and he won't be able to get in all the way. To do this you can make out, get a back rub, or anything that would release tension in you.

Even though the videos posted below show all the Special spots where you can get an orgasm, I believe in each of them it stats out how to loosen up the vagina so the penis can penetrate better. So take a look, and this may teach you about the A, C and G spots if you didn't know of them before. I'll also provide the poster even though it isn't relevant to the topic, but if you wished to know where they are I supplied them to save you time.

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
YouTube - Female orgasm | C spot | Clitoris| Demonstration with rubber vagina
YouTube - Female orgasm | G spot | Female ejaculation | Squirting | Demonstration with rubber vagina
YouTube - Female orgasm | A spot | Demonsration with rubber vagina

Have you looked with a mirror to see whats still there? You might just be stretched, not broken.

When my first time happened I was waiting for the pain and bleeding to start, but it didn't until after, so it doesn't happen with everyone.

All I can suggest is, relax, get aroused (use lube if necessary) and maybe orgasm before penetration, this can help some girls loosen up. Also you could use fingers or a vibrator, to help you stretch a bit beforehand. Different positions might help too, my first time was missionary (him on top)

I hope this helps a bit, remember the first time may hurt or be uncomfortable, but it does get better.