cant give my girlfriend an orgasm, while others could

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 3 years ago

Hey im having a problem, and could seriosly need some help.
I got a relativly new girlfriend, whom i asked recently if she ever had an orgasm.
I have never sleept with her, only peting and similare.
She said yes and i knew that she had never touched her self and she said that it was another that had done it for her.
This was really taking on my self esstem, since both she and i are virgins, and she recently wanted to have sex with me (dident quite worked out as planned:() whice now just feels wrong, because it now just seems, to me, like she thought of it as a kind of duty.
I feel inferior to that other guy specialy because i like my girlfriend a lot, but i cant make her orgasm and she wont guide me on how to give her one, barely even tell me what feels good and what do not:(.
I would seriusly like some help on this, cause it really tearing me apart to not be capabel of pleasing the one that i like, specially when she is pleasing me:(
pleas help! :(
From the sad boyfriend.

Replies(2)

Beagle

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3 years ago

After reading your post, i'm not sure exactly what the problem is. It sounds like you're both willing.

She's with you now. I don't know your age, but we reach a point where most of the people we date are sexually experienced, to one degree or another.

Just take the tips that are on this website. If the problem is impotence, that's entirely another matter. Performance anxiety is one of the leading causes. You need to become comfortable with yourself. She may have had pleasurable experiences with someone else, but that doesn't stop the two of you from making new memories. Old memories fade as we form new ones.

We like to think of ourselves as living in the present, but actually relationships are based on shared memories. As the two of you find new ways to enjoy each other, those memories of the past lovers will fade.

It sounds like you're feeling inferior to this guy (I'm assuming it was a guy). There is absolutely no evidence for that! You're making an assumption. There's a reason she's choosing to share her body with you now.

femaleorg..

Give her an A spot orgasm.

3 years ago

Her A spot is 3.5-4 inches (about the length of your middle finger) on the front wall of her vagina.

Stroke her A spot with your middle finger as if your were saying "come here". Try to scoop her A spot out. Use plenty of lubricant and persist until she orgasms.

Your stroking cause the same contractions that happen during orgasm so she has no choice but to cum.

Here's a diagram for you: