Can't Orgasm With A Condom...

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 2 years ago

I have been with my girl friend for over 7 years. 4 years ago we "accidentally" had a a daughter. She has since been on protection (NuvaRing), but has gotten to the point where she wants me to be safe (wear a condom) and not continue her protection. I am having a VERY difficult time reaching climax with them on. I find only about 2-3% of the time i do "finish", but most of the time i need to finish myself. To me it feels "very loose" because i produce a VERY LARGE amount of pre-ejaculate, the inside of the condom if very slick. I did the kegel exercises, and they do help but I am tired of her getting frustrated and thinking its her fault.
Help me... what can do?

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Xero

Re: Can't Orgasm With A Condom...

2 years ago

Tell her its not your fault, and tell her why its not her fault. If she gets unsatisfied with this as well it will cause more problems for you down the road.

Condoms can reduce friction, my best recommendation would try other things to get off in the end. Maybe having her give you a hand job or such, maybe oral if she is up for it. Just don't force her to do something she doesn't want to because that's wrong.

That is my best suggestion.

zeee_danj..

hi

2 years ago

Condom is again not safe way be safe and use some other protection like family planing ingection / tablets or put few drpos of oil in condom while using it.... change the way of sex

Good Luch

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