Ask Dan & Jennifer

Hmmm, not an easy one ...
I guess she might be scared that if you become really close that she might loos a good friend. You seem to be pretty important person for her, as you have this very deep connection with each other, and frequent.
Well My answer will be: honesty, honesty, honesty. Just tell her how you feel about her, talk about yourself (and only about yourslef) absolutely open and frank and maybe ask her how does she feel/ what does sje think about what you have told her? I know that it is sometimes hard to talk openly and honestly, but trust me, once you did, you will be happy you did it. And maybe once you discover what her reasons for being scared are, you will know what and how to react. If you do not know what her reasons for getting scared and going back are, then just ask her. I do not think that you should use tactiques or any kind of extra seduction...you already know her so well and she knows you so well, and is definitely close to you (well not as close as you want...but)...
This is what I think. I hope you get more answer here too.
I wish you all the best.
Barb

Sorry to be blunt hon, but the short answer is no. If she sees you as a FWB, that's unlikely to change. My people, including yours truly, go into these relationships hoping that the other person's feelings, but the truth is that it rarely happens.

It's been a year. If she was going to develop feelings for you and/or begin a real relationship with you, odds are that she already would have. And if you're looking for more, you are going to be dissatisfied with the way the relationship stands now. In addition to that, if she knows that you want more, the whole thing is going to be difficult for both of you.

On top of that, you have essentially taken yourself out of the running for meeting anybody that you do have the potential to build a relationship with. What if you were to meet someone tomorrow that would be great for you and you brush her off because you think this one might pan out? That would be pretty sad.

And never mind what will happen if she meets someone else. Odds are that she's not going to brush him off for you. You'll be left with your heart in your hand dude! Not a pretty picture my friend. Not at all.

For your own sake, I would explain to her what you're hoping for. If she tells you she's really wanting to keep things as they are, you owe it to yourself to walk away.

Thanks for the advice i walked away today, talked to her she admitted to lieing to me a few times and thats that im not keeping it friends, thanks alot for the advice it was really holding me back and now i can get back to me

:)
Stalion