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I have been divorced for over a year now. I had a guy friend from high school that I reconnected with as friends We would email here and there and I would call him sometimes. After a year of this he hinted to me in an email that he wanted more from our friendship. I gave him the more and then find out like a month later that he don't think he wants to marry ever again. The first month was nice as he had some time off of work. Then he stood me up on Jan 1 because he was tired that day and didn't have the thought to call me and tell me no plans for the day. I turned down plans with another friend and got nothing that day. Then about 8 days later we "got together" then a week later he don't call when we are supposed to visit again. says he got busy putting something together. So made plans for 2 days later and I got dismissed for the whole day cause his out of town daughter visited. Then he wants to take me to a movie...I got upset with all of this and wrote him an email asking him some things. He told me the answers pretty much days later. We hardly see eachother anymore, he don't email me much, and never calls me unless we have plans and he has to tell me he is home. I feel alienated but I love him at the same time. I had to do the email thing again with my feelings because I feel ignored and like he don't want me as a friend even though I asked him if he wanted to stop seeing me and he said no before. He is divorced for 5 yrs and very guarded in his feelings. In the last email I sent I pretty much told him he makes me happy and I want happiness in my life but if he don't think his is the one to give me attention then he should tell me and I will move on. Did I do the right thing? I do love him but I am crying all of the time because he seems so hard to get to know and don't keep me informed of anything. I gave him a v day card and he just said he don't do v day. I feel like he is emailing a guy instead of a woman. Help!
