Ask Dan & Jennifer

ok, i'm going to speak from my experience here and i'll be honest, i'm only 16..my gf is 18 so don't take what i say as "law" or anything, but....

i personally find it very atractive when my gf swallows and looks up at me with that kind of "begging for more puppy face." that being said, i have never asked her to do this. it's something that she just does on the occasions that she gives me oral sex (we both prefer straight up penetration and i honestly would much rather spend time pleasing her than to have her suck me off)..so, back to ur questions...um, there are scientific studies that show that swallowing cum actually is heathy and that it does anything from whiten teeth to prevent breast cancer. so, no..it's not dangerous.

now..is it possible for a man to eject a second time..so in other words have multiple orgasms?...yes it is possible but most men cannot or simply do not do it. after a man's first orgasm he becomes very sensitive and needs to wait a little while before more stimulation...perfect example..my gf usually has 2 orgasms, one after foreplay or during the first part of sex and then a second, and better orgasm at the end when i also have mine (i get one she gets 2..not fair lol).

here's a thought tho...if you would like for him to keep going after, you could give him his BJ and then have him start on you and go into foreplay while his little buddy gets his rest and then, depending on his refractory period, he'll probably be ready to go again by the time you're begging for it :)

hope this helped,

-Bill

Originally posted by: billy g.
ok, i'm going to speak from my experience here and i'll be honest, i'm only 16..my gf is 18 so don't take what i say as "law" or anything, but....

i personally find it very atractive when my gf swallows and looks up at me with that kind of "begging for more puppy face." that being said, i have never asked her to do this. it's something that she just does on the occasions that she gives me oral sex (we both prefer straight up penetration and i honestly would much rather spend time pleasing her than to have her suck me off)..so, back to ur questions...um, there are scientific studies that show that swallowing cum actually is heathy and that it does anything from whiten teeth to prevent breast cancer. so, no..it's not dangerous.

now..is it possible for a man to eject a second time..so in other words have multiple orgasms?...yes it is possible but most men cannot or simply do not do it. after a man's first orgasm he becomes very sensitive and needs to wait a little while before more stimulation...perfect example..my gf usually has 2 orgasms, one after foreplay or during the first part of sex and then a second, and better orgasm at the end when i also have mine (i get one she gets 2..not fair lol).

here's a thought tho...if you would like for him to keep going after, you could give him his BJ and then have him start on you and go into foreplay while his little buddy gets his rest and then, depending on his refractory period, he'll probably be ready to go again by the time you're begging for it :)

hope this helped,

-Bill

never though of it that way....THX SO MUCH...it did help,ESPECIALLY when u were pretty much honest with everything,thx again

Originally posted by: billy g.
there are scientific studies that show that swallowing cum actually is healthy and that it does anything from whiten teeth to prevent breast cancer. so, no..it's not dangerous.

I've been trying to emphasize the health benefits of swallowing to ladies for years and years! LOL

Sorry, I simply couldn't resist. :)

Dan

LOL! when i first told my gf this she didn't believe me untill i told her to look it up:D

never understood why it was such a big deal for some women to swallow... geesh..lol

Originally posted by: K. in Cleveland
never understood why it was such a big deal for some women to swallow... geesh..lol

Ha! It's all mental. LOL

Dan

lol.. this is true. Personally I'd rather swallow it and get it out of my mouth than waste time trying to spit it out anyway... although my adult modeling hobby has other ideas...lol... but seriously, would a woman rather her guy lick, spit, lick, spit or just... well... I don't wanna get too graphic, but you understand where I'm going...

Originally posted by: K. in Cleveland
lol.. this is true. Personally I'd rather swallow it and get it out of my mouth than waste time trying to spit it out anyway... although my adult modeling hobby has other ideas...lol... but seriously, would a woman rather her guy lick, spit, lick, spit or just... well... I don't wanna get too graphic, but you understand where I'm going...

well my main question was to see if it was a dangerous activity

Hi Jess,

Yeah, Bill was right on in his first post, it's not dangerous. I'm sure there's some exception somewhere like with everything else, but we've never heard of any situation where it was actually considered dangerous. Let's just say there would be a lot of sick women walking around. :-)

It may however be hazardous in that once you start, he may want you to do it again and again though. LOL

I will say that he should be cautious not to hurt the back of your neck with his penis by being too rough, etc.

Dan

Originally posted by: Dan And Jennifer
Hi Jess,

Yeah, Bill was right on in his first post, it's not dangerous. I'm sure there's some exception somewhere like with everything else, but we've never heard of any situation where it was actually considered dangerous. Let's just say there would be a lot of sick women walking around. :-)

It may however be hazardous in that once you start, he may want you to do it again and again though. LOL

I will say that he should be cautious not to hurt the back of your neck with his penis by being too rough, etc.

Dan

didnt u say that you could get aids with oral sex in one of your videos>?

The trick is with getting aids with oral sex, is one of the people has to have HIV/AIDS. You have to be completely open with your partner in that regard if you even want to get inimate. Or if the person has strep throat, you could probably get baterical infection... but more than likely the person with the strep won't even be willing to go down on you! (Strep throat hurts like a mo-fo and swollowing saliva is hard enough....)

As for me, honestly swollowing depends on where he is in position of my mouth when he ejaculates. If i have him deep, and near my throat, i'm more likely to swollow, as it won't just fill my mouth, and just go down my throat! if he goes when near my lips, then my mouth just gets filled and i only manage to swollow some and not everything, so i still get a lot of if out back on him! hehe.

Other than that, no, swollowing isnt' dangerous. I dont' see why it would be.

Originally posted by: Jess in Can
didnt u say that you could get aids with oral sex in one of your videos>?

Yes, that is possible. Although not entirely likely - definitely possible though. Check out the full article we wrote on this - Can I Get AIDS From Oral Sex? (Video)

To recap, here's the video...

How Risky Is Oral Sex? Can I Get AIDS?

Originally posted by: GeekyJenn
The trick is with getting aids with oral sex, is one of the people has to have HIV/AIDS. You have to be completely open with your partner in that regard if you even want to get inimate. Or if the person has strep throat, you could probably get baterical infection... but more than likely the person with the strep won't even be willing to go down on you! (Strep throat hurts like a mo-fo and swollowing saliva is hard enough....)

As for me, honestly swollowing depends on where he is in position of my mouth when he ejaculates. If i have him deep, and near my throat, i'm more likely to swollow, as it won't just fill my mouth, and just go down my throat! if he goes when near my lips, then my mouth just gets filled and i only manage to swollow some and not everything, so i still get a lot of if out back on him! hehe.

Other than that, no, swollowing isnt' dangerous. I dont' see why it would be.

i do the spitting thing too lol...anyways thanks alot!!!

Originally posted by: Dan And Jennifer
I've been trying to emphasize the health benefits of swallowing to ladies for years and years! LOL

Sorry, I simply couldn't resist. :)

Dan

Where can i find this information so i can educate my girlfriend.

Hi Angelo,

There have been various research papers and such published on this stuff now and then...

But believe me, the "honest, girl - it's for your health!" angle is not gonna win you any bonus points with any woman I've ever known!

I think you're much better off focusing on just how much joy it brings you, and how many orgasms you'll give her in return! As I like to say, there nothing more giving than a very satisfied lady. :D

this is my opinion about the swallow lol:
those ladies who can do it, i envy you!
for those who wont, i understand... i am there with you!

i have a complex issue about getting it in my mouth. i don't like it, and i personally think it's a waste lol!
i know most of you wont aggree, and that is perfectly normal.

my main problem with ginving head to my fiance is that i am gentle when i do it. he has these fantasies of brutal bj's and i really am not into getting choked. it really turns me off to think about being put infront of a penis, and have my whole face ravaged by it.
don't get me wrong, i am a very kinky person. i have a lot of spice in me, but that one little flaw is my imperfection.
i know a lot women whom don't even give there guy's the head that they deserve. my fiance is greatful for what i am willing to do, and i remind him once in a while that he is lucky , because i could be one of the prunes that don't do it lol!
there are times i wounder in my thoughts while i'm preforming. i think about what if the tables were turned? what if i was making him choke and gagged on my dick? how would he feel if i made him feel like a dirty little whore? lol
besides, what's good for the goose is good for the gander!!! lol
~fawkse~

Originally posted by: fawkse
this is my opinion about the swallow lol:
those ladies who can do it, i envy you!
for those who wont, i understand... i am there with you!

i have a complex issue about getting it in my mouth. i don't like it, and i personally think it's a waste lol!
i know most of you wont aggree, and that is perfectly normal.

my main problem with ginving head to my fiance is that i am gentle when i do it. he has these fantasies of brutal bj's and i really am not into getting choked. it really turns me off to think about being put infront of a penis, and have my whole face ravaged by it.
don't get me wrong, i am a very kinky person. i have a lot of spice in me, but that one little flaw is my imperfection.
i know a lot women whom don't even give there guy's the head that they deserve. my fiance is greatful for what i am willing to do, and i remind him once in a while that he is lucky , because i could be one of the prunes that don't do it lol!
there are times i wounder in my thoughts while i'm preforming. i think about what if the tables were turned? what if i was making him choke and gagged on my dick? how would he feel if i made him feel like a dirty little whore? lol
besides, what's good for the goose is good for the gander!!! lol
~fawkse~

i totally agree with you all the way!!! sometimes,during my perfomance,im thinking im gonna do it(and it only happened twice) when each time i swallow like half and the rest on him. we talked about i and he loves me just the same. whatever happens,a nice hot shower just fixs the problem ;)

As a male I have experimented by briefly tasting my own cum and its an acquired taste.But females,being physiologically different, may not have the same issue.Nevertheless,I've seen plenty of porn videos whereby the female will either cough up or dribble or spit out the cum received in her mouth.But then the guy is prepared,by artificial means,to be ready to squirt overloads of cum,or,she's being jismed into by a surfeit of such guys.One thing I've noted in these footages is that when a female gets jism in her mouth,she will quite occasionally spit at the "offending" cock or directly all over it!This definately indicates something.But conversely,there are instances whereby after some cum gets into her mouth she will also try to keep the cock close to her as if she's actually bonding with it or otherwise trying to.Or that's what it maybe looks like.Cum is probably,in the strictest technical sense,totally digestible - but it must come down to it being an acquired art and an acquired taste - to be able to actually consume and digest male cum.Being of sufficient build,I have been able to get the head of my cock in my own mouth in the shower,and it was originally a strange taste;but in a susequent threesome I shared a cock suck on a girl's boyfriend with the female and it was not untoward at all,nor conversely for him as he eagerly fellatioed myself,for her edification- -but there was no exchange of cum in these particular instances.

Originally posted by: Dan And Jennifer
I've been trying to emphasize the health benefits of swallowing to ladies for years and years! LOL

Sorry, I simply couldn't resist. :)

Dan

Hahahaha!!! This was in the Student NewsPaper on campus a few weeks ago, and it contains a whole bunch of healthy stuff, PLUS, it is addictive, I did not believe this until someone confirmed it. Sperm actually becomes addictive to women... Healthy + Addictive... seriously, healthy and addictive can finally live in harmony within the same sentence :D!

MaxS. :cool:

Consentual sexual activity is,per se,of medical and health benefits to females,from the time she reaches sexual maturity,and, if so, then presumably penile ejaculate won't do a female any harm in whatever way it is administered - outside of any medical risks to do with stuff like STD's. Males and erect penises are the best things that can happen to females - but females often only subconsciously suspect this. Males can be made to get re-aroused within minutes of a powerful ejaculation whereby there is no hurried pressure and the stimulation from the female[s] is good,acute, but also measured and patient - if you can figure.Sustained penile contact with the flesh of the female is helpful in this.[particularly the firm but smooth thighs and hips,and buttocks].Her slapping it with an open hand with her verbal derision and/or encouragement? - I'm not sure about that.Let a few couples try this and report back. Him slapping his penis against a prone or standing female - hard and sustained penile slapping - will definately work,I think.In fact, I'd like to see more of that in quality porno,for example.The penis is a sturdier organ than most people,particularly females,think. But no slapping of penises on bony areas-but only on firmly smooth or fleshy areas - to avoid longer-term damage to penile fibres.After all,the penis is of essential use in emptying both the bladder and the testicles of pressing fluid overloads and so 'he' must always be kept fully functional - in the case of every individual male. And such activity will not bruise female flesh - at least in my book.