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well in my opinon i do like them and i dont i do prefure natural wether they are big or small size doesnt realy matter but in your case that you hated them ect its you body and as long as it not over the top i dnt see no harm in them and there is no very oviouse scaring then its ok i guess so im still 50/50 on the matter for them and not but i dnt realy see why loads of women do it cause they think there breast are small my girl frend thort she did but i just kept playing with them and sucking them ect as ya do ;) and she has improved in size so i dnt see them as a mega need unless it is realy a problem in your days life then go for it if you can see what im saying lool sorry if thats no help lol

I wouldn't say that I hated them because of the size as much of the shape of them. My husband never had a problem with them, but he was fine with me getting implants as well. I would think it would be easy for me to tell if he found them unattractive, because he wouldnt play with them (but he does lol)

I as well do not understand why so many women get implants when half the women I peronally know, didn't even need implants. They already had C cups and very nice shapes to them as well. Of course what I thought looked nice, they thought looked saggy. I actually talked one friend out of getting implants by showing her how some models breasts looked lol.

Just about everyone in my family is large chested, except me (until now) and a cusion. What I also don't understand about some women getting implants is they end up getting them really large. On some it looks nice, but on others it looks like they have a basketball under tight skin. It really all depends on how much breast tissue and fat you already have. I actually tested the doctor I chose by telling him I wanted to be a D or DD cup just to see what he would say. I knew in my head that D would probably be a bit much and DD, well would be way too large lol. My doctor responded with a great answer, telling me that with my small frame, and going by the amount of breast tissue and fat I have, that he would only go up to a C cup on me and no larger.

I look forward to hearing more responses to my question on how men feel about implants.:p

I do not like implants.

I looked over your post and I did like the way you got them done though.

I find A and B cups to be perfect for me, I do not like C and above. I don't know why but a woman with big breasts is just not attractive. The girl could even be flat chested and I would still love it.

You said your doctor told you to with C so is that what your size is now? From your posts, I'm going to guess that your husband has seen you both before and after your implants and if he loves them and you love them, I would think that is what matters. I'm also curious as to what your height is since that is usually what determines whether you are underweight or overweight.

On to the main topic. I'm generally not a fan of implants. I think natural breasts are more attractive than fake ones. I don't discourage them on any female though because whether a lady gets them or not ultimately doesn't affect me since I'm a guy. But like I said, if you got them and you are satisfied with them, then in the end, that's what matters.

Yes I am a C cup now. My husband did see them before and after and I have not heard any complaints. I also enjoy natural breasts over implants, who doesn't? Lol. I don’t think that mine look fake and really the only way you can tell that they are is if you press them into my chest.

I am 5foot6; I lost 40lbs in 2 months. At first I didn’t feel that I was too thin, until family and close friends were asking me if I was sick (bulimic). I started to realize how much weight I had lost in such a short amount of time. My ribs and hips were sticking out and I was on my way to looking like a skeleton. I have to say the one thing that upsets me most about losing so much weight is losing the butt I use to have lol.

The one thing that makes me sad about implants is how many women get them and the reason behind it. A lot of women don't do their research, they do it for someone other than their self, they do it even though they have the perfect shape to their breasts already because they think "I am too small", everyone else is doing it so I want to do it as well.

I researched and thought about getting implants for 5 years before I actually got them. I got them for myself and no one else. I just hate the insulting comments made about breast enhancements in general. (Slut, fake, not someone to be in a long term relationship with etc)

Krista: From a man's perspective, I think you hit on the key about the breasts looking natural. Yes, we enjoy looking at a well-endowed woman, but I don't think it's as big a deal to us as women make it. It's not going to sway my decision on whether to date someone or not. I agree that women who get breasts out of proportion to their body look grotesque. I think firmness is much more of an issue than size, per se.

I have seen some that were so natural, I couldn't tell whether they were real or not. That's the only kind implants I like.
Some of them look and feel ridiculous. It's so obvious that their chest has balloons stuffed in them.
My girlfriend has small breasts and I love them. If they are firm and shaped nice, I prefer them to hanging ones.
The type of nipple is more of an issue for me. If the actual nipple is small, thin, or non-responsive to stimulation, It's a turn-off for me.
I prefer them to be thick like a finger, instead of thin and small like a man's. I prefer to feel like I'm sucking on a woman.
At one time, I was with a woman who had nipples like a man. It creeped me out when I tried to suck on them.
Also, If the breasts are destroyed from child-rearing, then I think breast augmentation is warranted.

Not all women get destroyed breasts from children, for a matter of fact, some women end up forming even more beautiful breasts. I guess it depends on what you consider "destroyed"? Stretch marks? Saggy? Very saggy?

I sure hope you dont say stretch marks, because not every one can have super model skin. And actually some models do have stretch marks. I think breasts with a little sag is nice, just not .. flap jacks? lol sorry that is the only word I could come up with.

As for the nipple comment, everyone is different in what they like. I dont like large nipples and I dont care for tiny ones either. But they all feel soft lol

Yes...my girlfriend has 2 children and her breasts are nice and firm with no stretch marks.
By "destroyed" I meant, ones that don't look or feel attractive anymore. One's that have collapsed, leaving them to look and feel like an empty sack of skin. Yes, saggy too. Yeah, flap jacks too. LOL. In these cases, implants really restore the appearance.
I like thick(not long) nipples that get as hard as a bullet when aroused. The areaola size doesn't matter to me, though, the larger it is, the more female a woman appears.

36MMM 20lbs each....

That's disgusting.

Thanks for the vid lol. But some of those facts are not always true. Mine bounce and move with me when I walk or run. Mine hang and dont stay round. And if your breasts are different sizes when you get a boob job, they will be different in size after the you get the implants. And lucky for me, my nipples dont point in different directions lol

I just posted that because the topic of the thread seemed right for it. That's one of the videos from Howcast that stuck out to me (I wonder why it did.....), even though I don't believe everything that they say (I'm skeptical when it comes to statistics) in that video.

It was a rather nice vid though. Not to mention the chick is hot with a nice rack LOL! :p

With some of the comments I read on here, I am starting to think that most men have seen nothing but bad implants lol

I seen and felt some that I could not tell whether they were real or not.
Maybe they only recognize the bad ones because it's obvious.

naturals are always better. if theyre big enough to squeeze theyre big enough for me. but implants dont turn me off and can be fun. but nothing is a soft and magical as a natural breast!

Originally posted by: Krista
With some of the comments I read on here, I am starting to think that most men have seen nothing but bad implants lol

We probably thought the good ones were real.

Originally posted by: Beagle
We probably thought the good ones were real.

I have to say, I have been pretty lucky. Mine dont look like they have been enhanced, unless you are really studying them lol

I have had nice compliments from guys that know me.

I would say that your cup size (C cup) would be what I would call the ideal size for breast sizes. I'm not saying I won't date a girl if she has a cup size other than that. If it isn't, I'd rather they be smaller than larger. I know some women have naturally large breasts but if they're TOO large, that's definitely a turn off.

I don't care so much about how big they are or how soft or hard they feel. What I care about is how a woman's breasts makes her feel! If they make her feel sexy that turns me on more. If she gets aroused when I touch them that turns me on. If her nipples get hard when I play or suck on them that turns me on. If they make her feel more confident in bed that turns me on.

For example I have had women who are like this with their breasts and they were probably just size A breasts... but b/c they have responded so well with her breasts that would make love making so much more intense. Whereas other women who are self concious about their breasts, or who do not get aroused when they are being fondled is a big turn off. So they might as well not even exist with self concious women as I just ignore them then.

In short, if implants can make a woman feel sexer then she should try it out, but the size should be proportional to her body frame size.

I am not much of a breast man and I personally don't think that a girl has to have huge breasts in order to be attractive. If someone gets a boob job and they're really big and disprorportionate it just looks funny. I recently saw an episode of some reality show where this hot girl got breast implants but I thought she was hot enough already and didn't need them but that is just my opinion. If you are happy with your implants that is all that matters.

I don't like how they feel. They do get soft after a while but still don't feel as good as the natural thing. To me, it is as bizarre as tribal piercing and freaky.

I try not to judge women's choice. I do like big breasts but natural ones. Everyone has their own preferences.

This thread is old. Started in Feb 2010.

Prob a good idea not to bother with it. :rolleyes: