First of all, I truely love my wife, and will be with her forever. We have been seperated for three years, but are still on more than speaking terms. My question is: during our first years of marriage (our second) she became quite attracted to a young man who was an Adonis.
Whenever he would come to our place, with his cousin, she would really 'perk' up.
His cousin and I would talk and such, but I couldn't help but notice that the two where engaged with themselves. I honestly did not think anything out of sorts.
Long story short. When she related to me that, "Guess who is back in town", and when told me who, I asked without thinking, " Hey babe, did you do him"?
She went baslistic, postal, etc. In retrospect, on my part, it was a logical question.
At least I thought. I know this; there was attraction, time, communication, and
closeness, as the apartments were close. She was on summer leave as a teacher, he was/still is a yound man looking to find himself. There was the element of time, cloeness, ans avaiblity.
I just want closure! I love my wife. I just want/need her to be truthful. I have already moved past this episode, but still I wonder. I have not brought this subject up again. Should I do what??