Ask Dan & Jennifer

so, i meet this man(28yrs.) a week and a half ago. He seems great,good job, head on his shoulders, caring.. Im 21, and not scared to settle down. we\\’ve hung out 2 time in company, 1 day date, and 2 come over n watch a movie nights. while hanging out the 2 nights he has asked me \\”what are you trying to do with a almost 30yr old man?\\” ive always been attracted to older men, he kept making comments like \\”wow u were born in 1988, that might as well have been 1990\\” n ill come back with witty comments like what ya cant handle a young pixie, silly stuff like that. he has also asked me both times how many kids do i want or if i want kids. n i said two n askd him back, he also agreed.i personally want kids younger than older i wanna be done by 28. Does it seem like my age is a real bother to him? ive never had anyone seem concernd seeing since i have never been immature. im the resonsible one of my friends. also, he had giggled and i asked what n he goes \\”i always said i would never talk or try to date a bartender\\” n yes i am a bartender as my part time postition i have a full time job as a hair colorist at a well known salon but with the economy i needed the extra cash. i explained to him that i wasnt the flirty tender im more the sarcastic \\”do u need a nipple for that beer bottle\\” kinda barkeep. but i still think he may not like the fact all so much. should i have him check out my bar n show him its nothing but old farmers drinking busch lite n singing some johnny cash rather than ur skanky dancing loud bar?