Ask Dan & Jennifer

Your fine, just your other half has more troubles and he needs, plus at the time was to busy playing the field. Sure you had your moments. Now is the time to move on and put him in another world never to bother you again. Get with your friends and co workers have some good times and pretend this never happened. When the time is right you will know what to do and with whom.

Remember never to let your communication between you and who ever you end with never ends. Also need that path. Hell looking at myself going on 31 years of marriage we communcate every day. It can have little to big items. The fact that we talk is our goal.

Wish you luck, always keep your dreams high..

If your gut tells you something is wrong, then likely there is something going on. You followed your instincts, and you were right. Don't feel even a little bit worried that you asked him anything! If someone is dodging questions, or uses the excuse that you are "insecure" they are full of BS and trying to hide something. Any question asked should be answered, any proof sought should be given, any story validated. My wife can follow me, check my emails, my phone records, my laptop...any damn thing she wants. And if she is insecure about something and wants proof, I have zero problem giving it to her. Anything less would mean that I'm hiding something. The real issue I would need to deal with is why she would get insecure in the first place.

I have to agree with Spaniard on this one. Why should you apologize for having suspicions when any reasonable person in that circumstance would have the same suspicious.

I suspect the problem here is that your "people picker" is broken. Part of that problem also resulted from moving entirely too fast in a relationship. When you're going 80 miles an hour, it's easy to miss warning signs. If he was cheating on his last partner, you can't really expect that he's going to be faithful to you.

Men and women have all kinds of explanations why they cheat. The bottom-line explanation is that they have character flaws that are going to continue to be a problem in future relationships until the person comes to terms with them and corrects them. If a relationship is bad enough the person to cheat, then they need to tell their partner that the exclusive relationship is over. The bottom-line here is that you should never have been involved with this second person to begin with.

If you make poor choices in the people you associate with, you can reasonably expect your self-esteem to take a beating. The key here is to do what Spaniard said and step out of the field for awhile, until you have thought through this. In your next relationship, you need to move more slowly and be more circumspect in choosing a partner.

I know I've talked pretty plain to you here, but you can't fix the problem until you're willing to recognize the problem. There are good men in the world, and there are pigs. You have to use your judgment to weed out the pigs. That takes having the self-discipline not to rush headlong into relationships. It means allowing someone into your life slowly, as you study their character every step of the way to make sure they are someone you want in your life. Only then will yourself-esteem improve.

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