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i remember my first time doing it to my hubby(sounds gross but when clean is ok) and i didnt even ask i just did but i knew he was open to anything. if you dont know if she will be open just say "hun i read about something and i want to try it. can i try it on you." then tell her what it is. most likely she will say yes or no but she wont laugh. just ask and dont be afraid

As a man, I would love to do that to a girl, but I don't think I would let a girl do it to me.

This is a major fetish for me to perform it. Just thinking about doing it to a girl, who i think is hot, turns me on instantly. I've done it many times and never asked before doing it. In the heat of the moment, if I'm really turned on, I just end up going there. I feel that it's very erotic.

Originally posted by: slittylicker
This is a major fetish for me to perform it. Just thinking about doing it to a girl, who i think is hot, turns me on instantly. I've done it many times and never asked before doing it. In the heat of the moment, if I'm really turned on, I just end up going there. I feel that it's very erotic.

What are the girls reaction? If they never had it before?

Extreme pleasure.

No shock at first?

Usually, a female use body language or an audible cue to communicate how something feels. If a woman moans with pleasure and she doesn't pull away or stop you, I would assume it's ok.
Besides, didn't you ever notice lesbian sex usually includes anal play?

Also, I would have no problem telling her what turns me on or doesn't.

Originally posted by: amy in ohio
i remember my first time doing it to my hubby(sounds gross but when clean is ok) and i didnt even ask i just did but i knew he was open to anything. if you dont know if she will be open just say "hun i read about something and i want to try it. can i try it on you." then tell her what it is. most likely she will say yes or no but she wont laugh. just ask and dont be afraid

As a fellow Ohioian and perv, I got to say I never could have even touched that area of the body with the woman I was with before. Who I'm with now is more acceptable in various times where she is turned on by the process and enjoys it very much. I'm glad she is open about it but know she would never do the same with me. That's fine. I am not wanting anyone near mine anytime soon.

i've done this a couple of times. I really didn't ask but i strongly hinted as to where i was headed. It worked out fine with both girls i've done this too.

It one my favorite thing i do with my wife during sex. To say say the least she enjoys totally

Originally posted by: stroker ace
How do I go about asking or just doing it to my girlfriend? She lets me finger her ass once in a while she will not have anal sex though. But I wanna lick her asshole. How do I bring this up to her or do it?

Analingus really isn't safe. You can use a dental dam, but you'll be at risk if it slips. The fact is, you're much better off with fingers, your penis, or toys if you want to engage in anal play. I know that's a controversial position, but it is what it is. Any time you put your mouth or tongue on someone else's anus, you're at risk to collect a nasty selection of bacteria.

I did a complete post on it here: � Blog Archive � Is Analingus Safe?

Some can disagree about analingus, and that's fine. But the fact is that you CAN catch and are AT RISK OF catching a ton of really bad bacteria with one bad experience. Why bother with something that can really hurt you? :(

I've licked a lot of female assholes and nothing happened to me.
I imagine if the woman has a disease, such as hepatitis ot parasites, you can catch it.
There's a vaccine for hep and medicine for parasites.
I guess I've been lucky so far.
If the woman is healthy and clean, there should be no problem.
I guess I was influenced by porn videos a long time ago. It's pretty prevalent in Porn . Watching it has always turned me on. Doing it turns me on even more.

I eat my girlfriends ass all the time.I didnt start out doing it.We were in the 69 postion and i started licking her ass cheeks ,she didnt mind that so i started going closer to her asshole and she liked it.I really dont know the best way to approach doing it for all girls.Me presonaly i just went for it.I cant see any girl thinking it doesnt feel good.

In porno films, lately, there are a alot of scenes where women receive anal intercourse, then the guy pulls out and she gives him oral. What's the deal with this? It's becoming increasingly prevalent.
Isn't there a bacteria risk involved here?
I'll lick the outside of the ass but once something has been stuck in there, inside contents are being brought to the outside(even if it isn't visible).
So, how do they do it?
There is clearly, no break in the film, so they don't dub it in. The guy pulls it right out and puts it in her mouth and the girls act like it's delicious.


?????

Does anybody know why or how this is possible?

Slitty- Porn is mainly acting, and a friend of mine had a girlfriend who was a pornstar, she said they ussaly took a break after every 5 mins, so maybe it just appeared like that? I mean, those girls can't even giv a proper blowjob, all they do is move there head up and down the shaft, no sucking or playing or anything. It's pretty much fake.. so yeah, they probably stopped, then started after he cleaned off, and made it look like there were no breaks in between.
And most men are trained to cum at will, like.. have you noticed most of them start touching themselves after a blowjob. then orgasm into her mouth, then she acts like it's all delicious?

My bf and I are into anal, fingering, sex, etc, and he ate my bum once. I was clean beforehand of course and it was amazing! Not something to approach lightly but it feels very very good and erotic.