In a online IM with my fiance's best friend (male) we both ended up stating that a foursome of me, my fiance, him and his fiance sounded like fun. Apparently his fiance is Bi, so that doesnt pose much of a problem with her going on me. My fiance is a bit uptight about anyone touching, or being near his hind end, so him and his friend is out of the question.
Regardless, I am a little confused as to how to pose this to my fiance. We just got engaged on Christmas (2009), and I dont want him to feel as though I am unhappy about that. I love him dearly! I do not want to marry his best friend, I just think it would be something different to try. I dont get upset when my fiance mentions another girls breasts are nice, or other such things, and he views it the same way if I make a comment about other guy.
So...should it be easy to suggest this?
Any tips for "breaking the ice" as it were?
Also, I dont really want him to know I was talking to his best friend about this topic.
(I mentioned it one time before, but wasn't actually serious. He said he had thought about it, but let the idea pass as he didn't think anyone would be interested.)