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If your coming just straight out and saying it when you first meet up... Thats the wrong time. You need to take it slow, coming from experience man. I would get the same thing. they would say they like me and all the good stuff that gets a guy to push harder, but the second you mention anything about relationships they flee..... right... Well the problem is that your trying to hard. you just need to take it a day at a time, you need to flirt which your probably doing, but when you flirt make sure your getting some if not all the signs that they like you back you know the Touching, laughing at your jokes eye contact the works......

And if you get to talking to a girl thats showing the signs. you Have to make sure she can tell you like her, but dont make it to obviouse and allow her to do some of the chasing.... it'll be fun.

I may not be 100% good at all of this so lets see if we can get a few more replies.:cool:

Originally posted by: thebassguy
i have been single for abou 3 years now and i keep meeting people i like i get told im nice and im kind and all the rest but the never seem to be intrested i am really trying and when i d tell someone i really like them the rum a mile is i don know whats wong with me an some on give me any tips thanks

If you're meeting people but getting told you're "nice", that means you're interacting with women in such a way that you get relegated to the friend zone. If women you want to date are telling you you'll make a great catch for someone (else), then you're probably suffering from "Nice Guy Syndrome." If that is the case, I'm going to refer you to someone who can help with that.

No More Mr. Nice Guy

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