First kiss help please

emalia1994

in Singles and Dating » Dating Tips and Advice • 3 years ago

I'm not sure if this is the right section of the forum, but here are my questions:
how can one explain to a boy that they've never tongue-kissed before with out being incredibly awkward?
and is it something that comes naturally or is everyone crap at it the first times?

Replies(4)

atticus_d..

Re: First kiss help please

3 years ago

Hi

The first kiss comes naturally and never kissed before shouldn't matter
I mean there is always a first time for all things
Just go with the flow and do what feels natural for you :)

modernsav..

Re: First kiss help please

3 years ago

It's not a big deal but can understand your nervousness. Kissing is just like everything else, awkward at first, but over time with practice you get really good at it.

When you're about to kiss just tell him that you've never made out before, so it might take some practice for you to get really good. The trick is to not look at this as flaw in yourself but as a good excuse to practice kissing more;)

No one is going to have a perfect kiss their first time, so just accept that it might be a bit clumsy at first. You can always ask for his feedback and see what feels good and what doesn't. Just keep adjusting until you find something that's comfortable for both of you.

Some quick tips:
1. Don't jam your tongue down his throat.
2. Keep your jaw relaxed.

Good luck!

ks_danjenn

first kisses are hard

3 years ago

I know the 1st time you kiss it can be werid. The first time i kissed a guy i remember he stuck his tonge in my mouth and started swishing it all around and it was gross. But that was a long time ago and now its alot more fun. Just be relaxed and tell them you ain't never kissd before and that you want to practice with them. oh, and don't keep your eyes open the first time... that just feels intimidating...

danandjen..

Re: First kiss help please

3 years ago

Here's are a few links that I found with some great instructional info on kissing.
How to Kiss - Instructables - DIY, How To, life
http://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-French-Kiss/

But I basically agree with the other posts on here. Relax and let it come naturally. The biggest way to screw up a kiss is to over think it. It really is a natural part of who we are as human.

Having said that, it never hurts to ask for feedback from the one you're kissing because everyone like to be kissed differently - some like it soft, some like it hard with a lot of tongue, and still others don't really like tongue at all...

So just practice, practice, practice and see what feels good to you.