Hi Dan & Jen.....
My name is Rob, 18 years old and living in the UK and i found you two after seeing some of your great videos on youtube. My problem is :
My first love was with a girl i went to school with, known her for about 7 years now. Her name is Kelsi and we started dating in Year 11 of school which makes us both 16. I was with her for two years full of ups and downs as relationships have, broke up with her last May 2007.
We went to school together, got our first job together and even got our second job together which is where we are now. I got and still get on quite well with her parents but my mother didnt get on well with her. She was my first proper girlfriend and i was her first boyfriend, even her first kiss & sexual partner.
We eventually broke up atter two years because we both were too immature, too much fighting and arguements, too much stress and no time for ourselves because we were never apart. Its been over a year since we broke up and we have both had one different partner but never lost contact. I can still feel in my heart that i love her and i know i do, this isn't just a childish thing because i can feel it in my heart. I dont know what she feels because she cant express herself because she doesnt know how to.
We haven't kissed or done anything since the breakup but whenever we are with each other, the flirting and sparks fly everytime. We still argue though but most people say its because we are very alike. I still love her and want to start the relationship up again but i dont know how to. She still has my heart and i feel that everyday, im sorry if you think this sounds silly but i know she has. Its been over a year and i still cannot let her go nor can i find my heart again......
what do i do ???