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Foot fetishes are actually one the most common fetishes, so your not weird!

I think you girlfriend's reaction will depend on how you present it to her. In this case, being direct may not be the best answer... Be discrete and introduce it slowly and gradually.

Without knowing your specific turn ons, it's hard to recommend anything exact, but here are a few examples.

"I love your feet. They're so beautiful"
"Those sandals are really sexy"
"May I give you a foot massage?" - gently kiss her toes (don't jump right into sucking them ;-))
Ask her to put her feet in your lap while watching TV
Take a bath together where you can wash her feet

These are all examples of where it's considered perfectly normal to touch and admire your partner's feet, so it should cause her any alarm...

Like with most fetishes and fantasies, it's best to intrduce them slowly, especially if they go outside of your partner's normal comfort zone. Patience can really pay off here!

Originally posted by: fentna
hi, i have a foot fetish, but im afraid of what my girlfriend would say if i told her. Is this a weird fetish?

I have one too. You know, I honestly believe it's extremely common. Look in the popular media at all the adverts which feature feet: holiday adverts (a billboard close-up of a pair of attractive female feet on a beach), the close-ups of high-heels. The feet are almost pubic, socks are underwear: they come off when the knickers do. I think psychologists say we link feet with nudity.

Also I've read in "The Joy of Sex" that the sweat on the feet contains the same pheromone that comes from the vagina.

Anyways, as for telling your girlfriend, I don't think she'll be creeped out about it. Normal couples play with feet all the time: they are a recognised erogenous zone, so you can play with them without her realising. As long as you're not obsessive about her feet, when you do tell her she'll probably be more curious than anything else.

Originally posted by: bigboldbat
Anyways, as for telling your girlfriend, I don't think she'll be creeped out about it. Normal couples play with feet all the time: they are a recognised erogenous zone, so you can play with them without her realising. As long as you're not obsessive about her feet, when you do tell her she'll probably be more curious than anything else.

I can say in my experience, I would say something first. I was at a party once with 3 guys with a foot fetish... So, first of all, yes, extremely common fetish. Secondly, the first guy I played with there was the first foot fetish guy I'd played with, or the first one who made it obvious anyway. He was doing the normal missionary stuff...holding my feet up by his shoulders.. then suddenly half my foot is in his mouth! Imagine my surprise. Not to mention my boyfriend was there also and sees this and laughs, I don't know if it was at my expression or the situation. Well, anyway, I actually enjoyed the feeling, I was just quite surprised when my foot was suddenly in his mouth. The other guys I've been with have said something like, "Oh I love your feet," or "Oh you have such sexy toes" or something.

I'd say give her a heads up, let her know her feet are attractive to you, and have fun!:D

fentna.. go read my second post on the new thread I just made. I think I found an easy, painless way that requires minimal courage (lol) to bring up the topic of a foot fetish and possibly even lead to a physical connection. Its not as tough as you think bro! Try it and let me know what happens. I wanna see if my method works for other people. You can be my lab rat haha. And for study purposes, how old are you?

Originally posted by: K. in Cleveland
He was doing the normal missionary stuff...holding my feet up by his shoulders.. then suddenly half my foot is in his mouth! Imagine my surprise. Not to mention my boyfriend was there also and sees this and laughs, I don't know if it was at my expression or the situation.

If I was your boyfriend I would've duct taped that guy and thrown him in the Everglades for the gators at the mere sight! lol unless this was all planned. I know people have parties like that. Unfortunately I cant find any :(

Originally posted by: USMC_Bret
If I was your boyfriend I would've duct taped that guy and thrown him in the Everglades for the gators at the mere sight! lol unless this was all planned. I know people have parties like that. Unfortunately I cant find any :(

LOL yes, this was one of those parties.. and we're that kind of couple...lol

Originally posted by: fentna
hi, i have a foot fetish, but im afraid of what my girlfriend would say if i told her. Is this a weird fetish?

hi,im Danial,27,i have a foot fetish so.for sure this is not a weird fetish.all fetishes are acceptable unless you couldnt control it .let her know about it & try to enjoy your fetish just with her not other girls:D:)

I have probably the biggest Foot Fetish around, any pose will get me going, soles, toes, oh the toes. OK enough with that, the point is that Foot Fetishes are not weird, many people that make fun of Foot Fetishists are just jealous because they cannot satisfy women as much as us Foot Fetishists. Just check out YouTube, there are LOADS of videos either foot clips, or snippits from Documentaries explaining foot fetishes. Got nothing to do some afternoon?, go to the Shoes Store... and stay in the section nearest to the women's section :p, summer is typically the best season to go, but winter is good for sock fans, I love nice thin socks on girls. And if you want to take it to the next level, you could get a job at a shoe store, A GOOD ONE THOUGH! Where they sell insanely sexy high heels, but not too sexy, you do not want your pants to rip on your first shift ;) hahahaha!!!

Lesson learned : FOOT FETISHES ARE NOT WEIRD!

MaxS.:cool: