Ask Dan & Jennifer

Please don't make your first experience a field somewhere!

Rent a motel room. Borrow a friend's house. But use a real bed. Last resort you could consider camping - tent with blankets/sleeping bag are not as good but could be a bit more "romantic" than an washroom somewhere.

Leave her with something positive to remember this by. This usually requires a bed or bed-like arrangement in a private location. Not the back of a car, shed, toilet, school, or commercial center.

I agree with scarbowl. My boyfriend and I are both virgins too, and when we have sex, I do NOT want it to be in the backseat like most of our current excursions. Even if we have to rent a motel room, like scarbowl suggested.

PLEASE, for her sake, make it a tiny bit more romantic and memorable the first time. Afterward, mixing it up could be really fun for you guys, but the first time I think she's most likely to want romance, comfort, and memorability. It's hard to do sexual things when you're not on a bed (take it from someone who spends a lot of time trying to figure out how to do things in the backseat of the car).

:) Good luck! I hope you enjoy your wonderful experience!!

but there is the problem that im only 16, cant drive yet, am broke, have no friends in the immediate area around where she lives (how ever i assume that she might be able to talk one of her friends into allowing her and i to come over fr a while) and she lives an hour away. the only other option that i can think of (but really dont want to take the risk of getting caught) would be to wait for her birthday party and then when her family has gone home and its just us and a few of her friends that is when we could go up to her room and do it. what do u think of that idea?

WOOT! i just found out some great news that means i can do it in the bedroom, my girlfriend told her mom that she was ready to have sex and her mom is ok with it! :D:D:D:D:D I'm sooooo happy right now im practicaly jump off the wals in glee.

:D congrats, ya'll are lucky to have such understanding parents:rolleyes:

Wow, that's really nice!! Good for you! :) I hope you guys enjoy the whole thing. :) I've heard it's beautiful!!

as a guy, (who is supposed to be macho and emotionless) my heart was in my throat the whole day...;) its very exciting.

now i just need to find out when I can come over to her place cuz even though im seeing her this saturday, this is a cadets (Cadets Canada) related thing so no "frat" (fraternization)