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Originally posted by: no-one
ok, i really like to put a finger in my ass when i masturbate.

so my question is... is it safe? (can i get aids or anything by doing that)

Yes its safe, not you cant catch aids from it. Just don't hurt yourself or be too rough, if you feel pain get out, and makesure you trim your nails.

is there some vibrator for men or something (oh god it sound so gay), and how much does it cost?

Yes there are loads, just search on the internet, & I'm sure the styles and prices vary wildly so I'm not even going to point you in the right direction, Just google it.

btw is there a way to make a better orgasma beside that way?

You'll get your best orgasm by doing whatever turns YOU on most at the time.

So try new things if you want, just have fun!

thanks for the help.

yw

Yes, it's perfectly safe. Actually, it's completely normal too. Your prostate is right under your anus, and that's what gives men the best orgasms (like a female g-spot), so it's understandable that you prefer those orgasms. And there may be other ways that create equally good orgasms, but since your utilizing your prostate, it's unlikely you'll find another way you like quite as much.

Although if you ever have someone else insert their finger (guys have girls do it a lot actually) or a toy, make sure the toy is cleaned or the finger is covered with a condom or seran wrap.

There are lots and lots of toys for anal play. I'd start out with something small and simple and affordable and then move your way up with bigger and more creative toys. They'll come in all kinds of prices from low to high. Try sites like EdenFantasys.com or AdamEve.com. Or you might be able to find an adult novelty/lingerie store near you like Adam & Eve's or Priscilla's/Priscilla McCall's, Frisky Business, Etc. These are mostly geared towards women but should have lots of great stuff for you. Make sure to ask for advice and don't be nervous or embarrassed.

And don't be silly, it's not at all "gay". It's completely normal to enjoy your prostate. ^-^

Have fun and play safe!

<3
Sin

thanks again
i feel much beeter