Hello Dan & Jennifer,
I am dating this wonderful woman, and from the start she has told me of a problem she has, that she can't orgasm through intercourse, it can only be achieved by oral or by masturbation.
Being a very sexually active person, i was sure that I could achieve the goal, being able to go for about an hour, but .... no luck. This is not really a topic in our relationship, since this has been her case always, not just with me.
One day that she did mention that she'd love to get an orgasm while having intercourse, and i ask what she thought cause this, she responded, she thinks it was too much use of the manual shower head that she used to get off in the shower when she was a teen.
I am pretty advanced in sex, but for the first time im stumped. Not for any macho reason or to try to prove myself......i really care about her, and might say i love her, and would like to see what I can do for her to be able to reach her goal. I always have a stress free enviornment, i do candles, sometimes incense, i live alone, so there is no pressure on time, etc.
I'd greatly appreciate any help.
Peter