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I been going out with a girl for year, friends for a year before that, we get along great, still can talk for hours at a time and while our personalities kinda clash we get along well enough. Problem though? it's sexless. At best we'd have sex like once a week.
It's very frustrating, how she dislikes it. I try my best to make her feel good, try building up, romance, etc. She refuses to do anything besides missionary, she refuses to let me do oral or to return, or any variation. Whenever i try talking to her about it, she'd tell me she just doesn't see the point in doing it when we could be doing so much other things better like hang out, play games, etc. which we do often, and seems despite enjoying it, rathering do other things and flats out refuses experimenting in the bedroom.
There's strong physical relation, often hugging, cuddling, massages, carrying, etc,. as well, so it not like she could just feel there not a strong enough connection or anything. I tried talking and finding her feelings and that she feels it a waste of time when we could be doing other things, my ideas of experimenting is disgusting to her, and she feels if i truly loved her it shouldnt matter that she doesnt like doing it often or experimenting. I try not bringing up this too often and to be inquisitorial than threatening or argumentative.
Sadly while i do love her it does matter and i'm growing more and more frustrated, I don't think i could continue to remain faithful like this. advice please? thanks in advance for any thoughts in assisting me.
I been going out with a girl for year, friends for a year before that, we get along great, still can talk for hours at a time and while our personalities kinda clash we get along well enough. Problem though? it's sexless. At best we'd have sex like once a week.
It's very frustrating, how she dislikes it. I try my best to make her feel good, try building up, romance, etc. She refuses to do anything besides missionary, she refuses to let me do oral or to return, or any variation. Whenever i try talking to her about it, she'd tell me she just doesn't see the point in doing it when we could be doing so much other things better like hang out, play games, etc. which we do often, and seems despite enjoying it, rathering do other things and flats out refuses experimenting in the bedroom.
There's strong physical relation, often hugging, cuddling, massages, carrying, etc,. as well, so it not like she could just feel there not a strong enough connection or anything. I tried talking and finding her feelings and that she feels it a waste of time when we could be doing other things, my ideas of experimenting is disgusting to her, and she feels if i truly loved her it shouldnt matter that she doesnt like doing it often or experimenting. I try not bringing up this too often and to be inquisitorial than threatening or argumentative.
Sadly while i do love her it does matter and i'm growing more and more frustrated, I don't think i could continue to remain faithful like this. advice please? thanks in advance for any thoughts in assisting me.
