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He had phone sex with the girl he first dated 4 years ago. They have been broke up and have had different relationships for the 4 years. About 3 months ago, I saw naked photos of her on his phone, after long debate I decided to give him another chance.
I want to add this: We have been dating for 10 months, I know he is a great guy, we've known each other since High school and we are both 22 now. So I do believe he cares deeply for me and I do for him.
Last night I couldnt resist the temptation to look at his phone, they had sent basically porn videos and pictures to each other one night (about 2 weeks ago). I was calm with him. He said sorry but what else can he say. He explained he still has feelings for her, but then he also said he has feelings for a lot of people. He said he thinks about our future a lot and that he loves me. I told him this was probably the end for us, he didnt want to hear that and left.
I made the point to him that I think its rediculous that he is still doing this with her, and that he is going to damage every relationship that he has.
I am going crazy trying to think if I should stay with him or not. If i stay,: most likely ill be worried all the time, and I think he will continue doing this with her but being sure to erase it after. If i leave, ill be upset and want him back but never say anything.
How do I handle this?
I want to add this: We have been dating for 10 months, I know he is a great guy, we've known each other since High school and we are both 22 now. So I do believe he cares deeply for me and I do for him.
Last night I couldnt resist the temptation to look at his phone, they had sent basically porn videos and pictures to each other one night (about 2 weeks ago). I was calm with him. He said sorry but what else can he say. He explained he still has feelings for her, but then he also said he has feelings for a lot of people. He said he thinks about our future a lot and that he loves me. I told him this was probably the end for us, he didnt want to hear that and left.
I made the point to him that I think its rediculous that he is still doing this with her, and that he is going to damage every relationship that he has.
I am going crazy trying to think if I should stay with him or not. If i stay,: most likely ill be worried all the time, and I think he will continue doing this with her but being sure to erase it after. If i leave, ill be upset and want him back but never say anything.
How do I handle this?
