Dear Dan & Jennifer,
Me and my boyfriend have been having a big problem, we get ready and want to have sex, but when I take my cloths off his erection goes down. He thinks his penis gets nervous. He said he can't control it. I think its because I dont look so hot at my lower body. I have a pair shaped body, so its not so pretty. I keep my hair nice and shaved though.
We had one time in the past where we did have sex, but I had my cloths on and it wase'nt for long because he said I was'nt so tight for him, but he gives me good orgazams and loves pleasureing me anyway :( . I dont know what to do. After that, he never got hard again to get ready to go.
It makes me feel bad when were ready and I undress and see that his penis has drooped. Feels like Im ugly, but he says he can't control it. Weve cried over this many times. But we dont know what to do.
He tries so hard to keep it hard and gets ready to put it in fast, but once his penis, sees my vagina. It goes down and we both cry about it. We both feel very sad.
Please help us. We dont know what to do or who to ask. I hope you both will get this message in a cry for help.
-Jenna in Georgia:(