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Hello all. I have a problem that I'd like some advice on please.
I have the problem of not being able to cum with my partner. I have no problem at all in getting hard (this is really easy) but whenever we get down to anything I end up with 'blue balls'. Just the other night we were at it for 3 hours & became fatigued, so fell asleep, then woke up in the morning & went at it again for another 2 hours, yet despite her best efforts I just couldn't cum. She was able to cum a fair bit, but was getting frustrated & felt inadequate that I couldn't cum despite her best efforts (so I felt like crap). She is very attractive so know that this isn't the problem (for those of you who were thinking it). I feel that I've no chance of cumming with a condom on (as I can't feel much) but want to practise safe sex with her, but even without a condom it's still very hard to even reach climax. I have the same problem (though not as bad) when I masturbate. I've had 'the snip' about 5 years ago & know that it can take away some sensitiveness, but I've always had a hard time in cumming, & wondered if anyone could please offer me/us some hope, as I'm getting really frustrated & don't want to hurt my lady.
I have the problem of not being able to cum with my partner. I have no problem at all in getting hard (this is really easy) but whenever we get down to anything I end up with 'blue balls'. Just the other night we were at it for 3 hours & became fatigued, so fell asleep, then woke up in the morning & went at it again for another 2 hours, yet despite her best efforts I just couldn't cum. She was able to cum a fair bit, but was getting frustrated & felt inadequate that I couldn't cum despite her best efforts (so I felt like crap). She is very attractive so know that this isn't the problem (for those of you who were thinking it). I feel that I've no chance of cumming with a condom on (as I can't feel much) but want to practise safe sex with her, but even without a condom it's still very hard to even reach climax. I have the same problem (though not as bad) when I masturbate. I've had 'the snip' about 5 years ago & know that it can take away some sensitiveness, but I've always had a hard time in cumming, & wondered if anyone could please offer me/us some hope, as I'm getting really frustrated & don't want to hurt my lady.
