Ask Dan & Jennifer

Hey guys n girls ive been out with this girl now for 6 Years im 20 shes 21 we used to get on really well these last couple of months since i installed World of warcraft on her computer so she doesnt get bored when she's at home.. she came to my house and i felt somthing wasent right she was texting alot and told me that her friend she hasent contacted for a while ( a girl ) has moved out to denmark so i thought okey so i left her texting and talking online... Then got into a month we went out to a hotel and she couldnt put the phone down i was getting really pissed off with it and asked her if she was cheating on me and she said no (Lie 1) then i got paranoid and got my laptop and hers and Keylogged it and when she went home i would check what was written i was gob smacked she was having a internet affair with a guy from Denmark... so when she cam around again i would sit next to her and she would hide the laptop away and i asked her wtf are u doing hiding something away from me she would say no (Lie 2) then she would also say im talking to her friend well down the line after keylogging my laptop and hers i found msgs like i love u and im horney and hello gorgous from him and her so i was like hmm this isnt right so i confronted her about it and she was like noo its just a friend shes moved to denmark ect ect (lie 3) then i started to go extreme paranoid and thought sod this im checking her emails and msn first of all someone messaged me saying hello gorgous then after that i checked her inbox found a love letter from him to her and i just picked up the phone at that stage told her to get to my house and went crazy shouting at her because i was so upset... she was still saying i havent cheated or had a affair (Lie 4) next thing she did when she got home she rings me up and says look ive had enough i want a break and im like why and she said because you keep accusing me and ive not done anything wrong (lie 5) after about a week not seeing eachother she kept texting him and typing to him and its got out of hand now its obvoius shes not gunna see him why does she bother she got back with me for a week and because i kept accusing she admitted it she was sorry and dumped me i was so heartbroken and she said i want 2 weeks to get my head sorted so i said okey she said im not talking to him so dont worry (Lie 6) so i remember her password for msn and i delete his name on there then she starts having a go at me changing all her passwords and then tells me it and tells me to go on there to look because shes not talking to him but infact i did some searching and found she had a skype account.. so i confronted her again.. well lets cut the story shorter she is still talking to him and tells me all the time she loves and cares for me but shes pissed and angry for what i did but it seems that she pulling it to her side all the time and my side doesnt matter because she still talks to him.. now everything has got out of hand i ring her she hardly anwsers doesnt reply to my texts much and she keeps making excuses when she goes to bed and when she has her days off she tells me shes working but what i dont really understand is she tells me she still loves me but she wants head space and she says were not together so she can talk to who she wants to i have 14days to go no contact no nothing and its hard because ive been left on my own no one to talk to and shes chatting away to him i dunno what to do i really love the girl but i dont think she understands that i love her.......o i forgot to add before she split up with me for the 2nd time i took her for a meal, took her to the cinema, took her to the beach we held hands cuddled kissed and tells me she loves me but still shes angry with me for some reason i dont no pisses me off it really does :(