He's trying to mess with my mind.

in Love and Relationships » Break Up and Divorce • 2 years ago

This is a continued post of my first one, it's "lost". Well, my on/off boyfriend is playing mind games with, you know how someone tries to make it seem like they didnt say something when you KNOW and heard they did? He's trying to pull the wool over my eyes and he got me to a point where I'm questioning my own judgment...I KNOW I'm not stupid and I know something isnt right...I care for him, he has no one, his family wants nothing to do with him, he has no friends, I feel bad for him....That's not the reason I got with him, I at one time loved this man but a turn of events that happened years ago altered my feelings for him...I want to break up with him, I have before but I guess he's my emotional support when things go bad..however, he's making me feel really stupid and pretend he didnt do the things i know he did...what do i do?:(

Replies(2)

Beagle

Re: He's trying to mess with my mind.

2 years ago

IndianaGirl020: It sounds like you have one foot in the relationship and one foot out of the relationship. That isn't healthy for anyone. If you've felt this way for over a year, then it's not fair to him to keep him there to be your "emotional support" if you feel this way. Time to end it; for both of you. It's not fair to keep him hanging on if you feel this way.

miza_danj..

Re: He's trying to mess with my mind.

2 years ago

get out of it! I was in something similar for a long time, and it ended with me exploding! Dump him and tell him to stay away from you for a while. If you care for him, you can ask him to come back for a talk when you are ready for it. People playing mind games almost always have a better grip on you than you really want to admit for yourself.