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Looking for advice-My wife and I have a super-vanilla relationship with mediocre and infrequent sex. I've been learning about chastity for years on the web, and know for a fact that I am submissive and would love to be constantly servicing my wife without any regard for my self. My wife found out 1.5 years ago that I had a secret life, hanging out with hookers, strippers and porn stars for years--I spend a lot of money on them and was seriosuly considering leaving her for one of them. We worked through it and the first 1-3 months were amazing. Blowjobs while I watched TV, she's just sit on my face whenver she felt the urge and then walk away when she was done. I thought I had reached perfection. I ordered a CB-6000 and told her about it, offering her the key. She thought it was terribly kinky and horrible and made me throw it out, saying that I should want to have sex with her b/c I love her, not b/c she holds the key. Here we are 1.5 years later and if we have sex 2x a month it's a lot, and she lets me go down on her maybe 1x a month if I'm lucky. I have begun masterbating chronically and returned to my porn and internet chastity fetish in spades. I really want to convince her that chastity is the right thing for us. I was thinking of asking her in nice honest discussion and how it could make our lives so much better--she can force me to lose weight (which I need to for health reasons but havent had the motivation) we can save money by not letting me have any cash to buy breakfast, lunch or snacks outside the house and it would increase my desire for her. I feel I need to explore this but feel almost 100% certain she will say no and be very angry, wondering if I'm being unfaithful to her again. Any suggestions how to broach this delicate topic?
