how do i ask her for a blowjob without realy referring to a blowjob

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 3 years ago

hi my names tony and i want my gf to give me a blowjob , shes already recieved oral from me and i want oral from her also she is willing to give me oral she says she wants to do anything i wanna do with her but im kinda shy of telling her "okay i want a blowjob" how can i tell her this in the least perverted way?
, i dont wanna sound too perverted
so basicly how do i ask her for a blowjob without realy referring to a blowjob?
and how can i make it sound so that i wont be too shy?
because im realy shy.....once she asked me too litteraly tell her what i wanted and i just couldnt awenser and i sayd w/e u want to do...
so please help me with this little problem it realy sucks , i wanna be able to tell her what i rly want without literaly saying what i want .pls help idd realy apresiate it..
thanks Dan&Jennifer :):confused:

Replies(3)

leash_dan..

Re: how do i ask her for a blowjob without realy referring to a blowjob

3 years ago

so you want a blowjob? i have an idea if she is willing to give you a blowjob then just ask in a kind way. or ask if she would like to taste you or something in that direction

danandjen..

Direct is always good - but you could go the fantasy route

3 years ago

Hi Tony, welcome!

Hmmm... direct is always a good thing, women tend to like men who are direct and at the very least come off as knowing what they want.

That gets into a more complex confidence issue but I'd really urge you to look into the source of your shyness and try to work on it. That can really change your life for the better.

Sounds like she's pretty direct and I bet that if when you two are starting to get naked and get into some type of sex play - if at that time you tell her you'd like her to go down on you, she will probably really enjoy that.

Now for a more roundabout approach... there's always the "Fantasy Box" idea. a great way to spice up your sex life is to create box and you each get a few pieces of paper and jot down a secret fantasy on each one. and when you're getting ready for a hot date (or on "fantasy box night") you both open the box and one of you pulls out a fantasy and you both decide if you want to do it.

that's a fun non-direct way to introduce ALL KINDS of ideas... and you'll always be surprised what your partner will put in there that they won't share with you to your face. ;-)

Try it and let us know how it goes!!

femaleorg..

Stop thinking asking for a bj is perverted

3 years ago

And start thinking it's normal. You could put a finger in her mouth and get her to suck it. Say "Wow, you could suck a peel off an orange" and then look at your crotch. See if she understands the non-verbal communication.