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Women usually take more time to get to the point where they reach an orgasm. You can try starting off by fingering her before sex to get her more ready when you both are going at it.

You didn't post any information on if you knew where the special spots are, but here is a list of them below. They would probably be very helpful to you, if you need any more information on them just ask.

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
YouTube - Female orgasm | C spot | Clitoris| Demonstration with rubber vagina
YouTube - Female orgasm | G spot | Female ejaculation | Squirting | Demonstration with rubber vagina
YouTube - Female orgasm | A spot | Demonsration with rubber vagina

and talk dirty to her. When you have sex, make her cum hard and she will become sexually-addicted to you.

My question for you, why do you want it to be quicker. In the long run you need to start alot earlier than normal if you are having trouble in getting her excitied. Start, say in the middle of the day with a hint of what you want to do to her. Little text message and sorts. Just remember it is your girlfriend you are try to get aroused. Plus the mind is are biggest sex object you need to get into the field of play..

Good luck and take your time. Hell in due time you will be doing quickies before you know it...

OK, I will tell you some more tips which guys above did not tell you. Their advices are about techniques, which is important but not all.

Female sexuality is 50% in mind, head. You can use perfect techniques, but if her mind is not set up, then it will be harder.
Here are few more tips how to preprae her to enjoy it more:
- the more she is relaxed, the more she enjoys. MAke her relax: give her relaxing massage, play soft music, burn candes and insence. Be absolute romantic...womn love it. Try to make an atmosphere where none will interfear,w here she feels safe and confortable. Maybe take a massage bath before...
- when making love make really really really long forplay. Most of men penetrate too early, when girl is wet but not really ready enough.
- when making love concentarte to her whole body. It is not only her sexual ogans which need attention, but women likes to be tuched and rubed everywhere.
- be gentle and caring with your girlfreind not only when making love. Women like being pumpered and cared and tuched, huged even if that does nto lead to sex. Many men forget that...but being gentle and affectionate to her outside bed, in everyday situation can really make her more wanted and sexy when it comes to actual love making.
-communicate! try to figure out what she likes. Every woman is different, and likes different things. Try to find out what works for her. Once you find out, do as you can see in the videos above...it may time time for a girl to cum, but if she is satisfied she will be mad about you.
- and dont forget, making love is about anjoying each other, being together, and orgasms sould not be scores in a match. sometimes you can have great sex withou comming...actually osmetimes the best one.
Hope this helps.
Greetings and enjyo.